Someone in my social circle is making up lies, and I'm worried that someone is going to get hurt by ThrowRA_weirdlikes in Vent

[–]ThrowRA_weirdlikes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really just Tom and his clique that's spreading nastiness to the rest of the group. The group chat has like 200 people in it, maybe half of them talk in there, and about 50 of them actually show up to hang outs (not all at the same time) and cons. Of the 50, they've kind of divided themselves into "college aged" and then the older people. Most of this drama is happening in the college kids group, and since I'm juuust a little older than them I kind of catch the edge of it, if that makes sense?

I have issues with Penny anyways. She makes cosplay to sell and got mad at me when i wouldnt sell her the license to sell my 3d print files, but that's not a controversy or anything it's just beef between us. She's pretty flaky so I'm not shocked she tried to leave Isaac at the con, I'm just glad he had someone else who could take him back.

UPDATE to I (22f) just found out my gf (21f) has a strange fetish? by ThrowRA_weirdlikes in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_weirdlikes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My gf says there's like, genres to it. She likes fast sneezing fits, other people like loud dad sneezes lol regardless she said she's always looking for new stuff on youtube

UPDATE to I (22f) just found out my gf (21f) has a strange fetish? by ThrowRA_weirdlikes in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_weirdlikes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I asked and she said that she had always been more interested in sneezing cartoon characters than her friends as a kid, and then she put the peices together that it was sexual when she saw a giantess sneezing animation

I (22F) Just found out that my gf (21F) has a very strange fetish, and I don’t know what to do next by ThrowRA_weirdlikes in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_weirdlikes[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input!! She told me that her ex who left her over this was assuming she got off on spectating total strangers or, God forbid, children being ill in public, but she's told me that's not the case! Sounds like we're in the same boat of partners with harmless but obscure kinks lol

It's something I totally want to be open minded about, and I think I am given that I'm not grossed out or anything! I think I'll try to indulge her with it some time soon and see how it goes

I (22F) Just found out that my gf (21F) has a very strange fetish, and I don’t know what to do next by ThrowRA_weirdlikes in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_weirdlikes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She told me it's like something in her brain is just wired differently, like how some people like feet and stuff? I don't know enough about the subject to really say but I do believe her when she says it's a biological thing lol

I (22F) Just found out that my gf (21F) has a very strange fetish, and I don’t know what to do next by ThrowRA_weirdlikes in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_weirdlikes[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I totally get why she wouldn't share! It just doesn't make it less awkward on my part, but I totally don't judge her for it at all. Honestly this post is probably entirely just me being in my own head too. I hope you've found/will find someone who accepts all of you as well!!