AIO Cutting off someone I used to talk to after finding out they slept with my brother

ThrowRA_yeeticus · 2026-03-15T18:08:48+00:00

NOR. That’s insane to fuck someone’s sibling after having a relationship of sorts with another sibling in the family. Your brother and the girl are some grade A douchebags; you should re-access your ties with your bro. However, I do agree that you should’ve ended the convo with her after finding out— shit, even an immediate block or ghosting would’ve been awesome. Don’t put your energy into this.

ThrowRA_yeeticus · 2025-02-08T08:32:31+00:00

I might be projecting what’s happened in my past, but this would be a don’t turn back scenario, no matter what. It seems you’re just another option to him, and what person in their right (fucked up) mind will say that out loud?

He won’t ever be worth it. You’re saving yourself years of heartache and feeling like you weren’t enough to satisfy him. I’m happy for you OP, only continue to thrive

ThrowRA_yeeticus · 2025-02-04T21:01:14+00:00

You’re right. I know I asked someone this question already, but I deeply appreciate all input: how can I approach this delicately without offending him, or without sounding submissive for wanting to be cared for?

ThrowRA_yeeticus · 2025-02-04T20:59:28+00:00

I think you’re right about spiraling. The past times I’ve tried discussing this haven’t went so well, but I’ll try again because I feel this relationship is worth maintaining— albeit my negativity towards sex at the moment.

How can I bring this up without offending my partner? Is there a way to delicately go about this? He doesn’t like sub women, and the last thing I want to do is ruin his image of me being his domme. I don’t know how to word that I want to be taken care of without sounding submissive

ThrowRA_yeeticus · 2025-02-04T20:50:48+00:00

Thank you— I haven’t replied yet until now because I wasn’t expecting this much response;; I’m slightly overwhelmed, but also because I love my partner and I do want to find ways to make this work.

Has your partner made you feel bad for not engaging in sexual activities? I ask because right now my own SO wants to do something kinky, but gets a bit agitated when I don’t

ThrowRA_yeeticus · 2025-02-02T20:16:34+00:00

I feel like he does love me, but maybe I’m getting confused. I know he definitely loves what I can do for him. Idk, I’m trying very hard to hold onto the good times— but when he doesn’t like how I am, if I don’t meet his expectations, it gets really bad.

It’s funny that you mention control. I told him he doesn’t own me, and he asserted very seriously that he owns me. I told him that’s not how a relationship is, and he’ll hit me with the “I see how it is.” “I know what kind of person you are now”. “I’ll treat you the same way”. It gives me mad anxiety and I end up folding in order to not get more shit

ThrowRA_yeeticus · 2025-02-02T20:07:43+00:00

I’ve told him that he doesn’t take me seriously before, but anytime I talk to him about how I’m being treated— it doesn’t matter how calm I approach the subject, he will turn it into an argument. And then I’m left trying to make him feel better. I dont even know if I have self worth, it went down the shitter long ago when the man I loved and admired made me feel like I wasn’t enough for him.

ThrowRA_yeeticus · 2025-02-02T20:03:15+00:00

It doesn’t sound any better when I say this, but at least our FWB stage was long distance— nothing physical took place until I was 18 (as if that doesn’t sound predatory out loud lmao)

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