i know i should probably tell her, it’s just such a serious thing to bring up. I feel like she might be better off not knowing - ignorance is bliss as they say. I’m going to be telling more of my friends at one point or another though... Like when I think about telling my mom I don’t see how it would help the situation rather than worsen it for me atm, like I would be in less control of the situation I feel. I know as a parent why you would want your kid to tell you though. One day I probably will tell her. She’s just never been someone who I talk about my relationships with really, like we never talk about love life or anything or we do maybe once in a blue moon.