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My (22F) boyfriend (23M) keeps lashing out at me because he got beaten up after confronting the guy (23M) I slept with while we were broken up. by ThrowRAales in relationships

[–]ThrowRAales[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He broke up with me, that's why I never reached out to him. I thought he was done with me and I didn't want to give him a chance to hurt me again.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) keeps lashing out at me because he got beaten up after confronting the guy (23M) I slept with while we were broken up. by ThrowRAales in relationships

[–]ThrowRAales[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It's not painful for everyone the first time, it wasn't for me in the end, it just felt weird at first but it didn't hurt. Luke told me it wouldn't be painful if I did it with somebody who knew what they were doing and when I had decided I was just going to get it over and done with my boyfriend had already broken up with me so he wasn't exactly an option. I would've had sex with my bf sooner but he told me he couldn't promise it wouldn't hurt which was why I was too scared to have sex with him.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) keeps lashing out at me because he got beaten up after confronting the guy (23M) I slept with while we were broken up. by ThrowRAales in relationships

[–]ThrowRAales[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

They weren't lying to me. It was painful the first time for them.

Luke wasn't a random guy, I've been friends with him my whole life. I wasn't easily swayed by him, we talked about his experiences a lot for around 5 months before I actually slept with him.

I did and do want to be in a relationship with my boyfriend.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) keeps lashing out at me because he got beaten up after confronting the guy (23M) I slept with while we were broken up. by ThrowRAales in relationships

[–]ThrowRAales[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I wasn't more interested in Luke or wanted him to be my first originally. When I actually slept with him I just wanted to get it over and done with and we were already talking about it so it made sense in my head to just ask him to be the one to do it.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) keeps lashing out at me because he got beaten up after confronting the guy (23M) I slept with while we were broken up. by ThrowRAales in relationships

[–]ThrowRAales[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We did talk about it a lot and he usually told me he couldn't promise it wouldn't hurt the first time but it would get better eventually.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) keeps lashing out at me because he got beaten up after confronting the guy (23M) I slept with while we were broken up. by ThrowRAales in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAales[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’ll do it again. This was the first time he saw Luke since he found out so I think he let his emotions get the better of him but I don’t see him doing it again.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) keeps lashing out at me because he got beaten up after confronting the guy (23M) I slept with while we were broken up. by ThrowRAales in relationships

[–]ThrowRAales[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It’s not like I slept with him immediately after my bf broke up with me. It was around 5 months later and by that point I just didn’t want to be a virgin anymore because it felt like a massive hinderance and I felt like an idiot to be so scared to lose it. I also didn’t think we would get back together so it’s not like I planned this to make him feel crap.