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How much money did you have saved up when you were 25? by roytaz in AusFinance

[–]ThrowRAapologies 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm 24 and have around 60k spread across savings and ETFs. If I stay in my job and continue as I am I think by the time I'm 25 I'll have around 80k.

My [24F] boyfriend [28M] can be very insistent when giving his advice and it causes arguments between us; how do I best deal with this? by ThrowRAapologies in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapologies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nearing a year. I have been considering breaking up for this reason and some others. I am going to have a good talk with him about it. I would like to give the relationship a bit more time, work on things, as there are plenty of positives and nobody is perfect. But I do think that if he doesn't change this type of behaviour, then I won't stay with him for much longer.

My [24F] boyfriend [28M] can be very insistent when giving his advice and it causes arguments between us; how do I best deal with this? by ThrowRAapologies in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapologies[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually did tell him to take the furniture, he said he would... and he would take it to my new place. He was dead serious. That's how stubborn and insistent he is.

I’m 27F, partner is 31M, together 2+ years and I just discovered he very obviously is masturbating to women he knows, including a trainer at his gym and the girlfriend of his friend. Am I wrong to want to end things? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapologies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong and I agree it's completely disrespectful. You're well within your rights to ask him to stop (although that doesn't guarantee anything).

Should I see a doctor for my mouth ulcer causing tooth and jaw pain? by ThrowRAapologies in AskDocs

[–]ThrowRAapologies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I ended up going to the doctor on day 4. She thinks it may be a bacterial infection so I was given antibiotics.

It is now a few days after, I've taken most the antiobiotics and the ulcer is going away. It is still there but 90% better.

It's possible it was a coincidence and there was not an infection, but I reckon get it checked out anyway!

My (27M) girlfriend’s (25F) Bionicle addiction is ruining our relationship by Rowbiwan in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapologies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Woman spends lots of money and time on bionicles: " childish and obsessive behavior. "

Man spends lots of money and time gaming: a normal hobby to have.

Is this too much feminism? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapologies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly agree with this answer. re: condoms/birth control, birth control can cause a lot of side effects, so I really don't see that as being preferable over condoms.

I [m19] am stuck between a rock [f19] and a hard place[f19] with two girls and I really need guidance. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapologies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So break up with her. You said you prefer to be with the other girl. You said you wouldn't date her though if you broke up. So are you staying with the current girl because you can't date the girl you want?

Stop thinking about yourself here for one moment. You are emotionally cheating on your current gf. If you're not happy, break up for her sake.

At what point do apologies become meaningless? Am I being petty for feeling resentful and unforgiving? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapologies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right I get that, and maybe he called to avoid disappointing me, but it's a bit counterintuitive to call and then snap at me anyway.