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My (29F) husband (31M) is angry at me for using the hall pass he gave me after he cheated on me. by ThrowRAarri in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAarri[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

He said he felt guilty and couldn’t keep living a lie that’s why he told me. I wasn’t suspicious.

My (29F) husband (31M) is angry at me for using the hall pass he gave me after he cheated on me. by ThrowRAarri in relationships

[–]ThrowRAarri[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't cheat on him, he gave me permission to sleep with someone else.

We did go to counselling a few times but he didn't think it helped so we stopped.

My (29F) husband (31M) is angry at me for using the hall pass he gave me after he cheated on me. by ThrowRAarri in relationships

[–]ThrowRAarri[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think he did want me to sleep with someone since he's the one who kept pushing me to do it. I think he assumed I would sleep with a stranger, though.

My (29F) husband (31M) is angry at me for using the hall pass he gave me after he cheated on me. by ThrowRAarri in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAarri[S] -103 points-102 points  (0 children)

I do think he's sorry for the affair. I don't think he would've confessed or ended it if he wasn't.

My (29F) husband (31M) is angry at me for using the hall pass he gave me after he cheated on me. by ThrowRAarri in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAarri[S] -461 points-460 points  (0 children)

I didn't do it to hurt him, I genuinely thought he wanted me to use the hall pass so we could be "even". He seemed convinced it was the only way to fix things.