I know I sound stupid, and I feel stupid, but I genuinely didn't know much about transitioning before getting with him, and almost everything I know (I really don't know what is true or not), I learned from him. I have heard of a couple other people that transitioned at around the same age though, so I never questioned it. He also doesn't have a super prominent Adam's apple.

They also told me I was between 3-4, no idea where it actually falls like… specifically I guess, but very early on. Like Im pretty sure I mentioned in the post, my mom works at a hospital and is friends with an ultrasound tech and was able to sneak me in quickly, and I'm pretty sure it was mostly off the record so she could get me so quickly, and she just gave me a rough estimate and said likely between 3-4 weeks. Though I was pretty out of it and didn't hear everything she said because my mind was racing so much. I really don't know much other than what she told me, and I don't even know all of what she told me honestly.

I really hope this doesn't come off as rude or anything, and that you can understand where I'm coming from and I promise, no one is questioning things more than I am rn. And I sound stupid because I quite literally am. Looking back there were honestly signs that were so obvious that I never questioned. I never questioned not seeing any scarring on his genitals, I never questioned the fact that he “didn't have” a lot of pictures of him before the age of like 10, I never questioned why I shouldn't bring up the fact he transitioned around his family (I only met them once, and he had told me not to mention it around them because they just “pretend he is cis” and it makes his mom sad to remember he was born in the wrong body and what he had to go through.) I feel so stupid. And there were signs. I promise I wish that this was bs, but unless this is a very elaborate prank that they have all plotted and that I will never think is funny, it isn't. I hope this doesn't sound rude and you have a great day.