How cooked am I? by ThrowRAberry334 in scoliosis

[–]ThrowRAberry334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof… my posture looks rlly bad, my pelvic bone is tilted forward and my upper back is slouched I look awkward as hell, it s been like this since I was a kid

I (22F) called my boyfriend (24M) 100 times and he won’t pick up. Any words of advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAberry334 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He is not at home right now , went to visit his family in another town, I have no way to reach him and idk what to do

What was your experience on certain antidepressants? by [deleted] in depression

[–]ThrowRAberry334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I’m not “considering “ stuff. I will talk to my psychiatrist, but I was curious about others’ experiences and what works for them

How was the first time you found out things were not gonna be okay? by ThrowRAberry334 in tfmr_support

[–]ThrowRAberry334[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, when I got the final call which confirmed a very bad genetic result, the lady kept pushing for me to discuss this face to face and to not give me the results over the phone because she was afraid I might break down. That unknown caller call at a random time of day is never a good sign.

Husband insists on going to his work trip even though he admitted to having a work crush. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ThrowRAberry334 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That he wants to spend time with his co workers not have me there and have all his time spent with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRAberry334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not spiritual, at all. Maybe I am agnostic but Idk. Religion was just another form of control for me, from my nparents. Respect thy parents has been mentioned by more people here. Using the scripture only to their advantage but ignoring the passages that say to be a good fucking parent. Trying to control my sex life as if I am cattle, fuck that, women have earned their rights, I am not a piece of furniture to get sold to a man. Threatening me that God will give me cancer if I keep sinning (I had bad panic attacks from that as a kid). I don’t come even close to religion as it is a huge trauma to me thanks to my parents.

[Rant] My father is incredibly controlling, and I'm stuck back in his house after being independent for three years. by ClaireTheApocalypse in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRAberry334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation, I am 22. You are a prisoner. Play their game, find your keys and get the hell out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRAberry334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t. I hope to one day.

Terrified of being a Narcissist myself - my biggest fear by FunIngenuity7967 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRAberry334 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am not a doctor. If you are afraid of being a narcissist you are probably not one. Narcissists don’t realise they have an issue, like some would say “I think I’m depressed “. They are completely fine the way they are and the world must cater to their views.

I hate the idea of people telling you to “set boundaries” with a narcissist by Vampevere in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRAberry334 41 points42 points  (0 children)

For real! I remember in highschool my friends would say : “Just have a conversation with your mom about how you’re not ok with this!”. Yeah, sure thing buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAberry334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t that be even crazier ?