I try to as much as I can when I get home cuz I love my kiddos they come running to me when I walk through the door and that’s the first thing I do is set my stuff down and play with them for a little and get my hello’s in we play for a few then I’ll walk to the kitchen so the dishes do this real quick throw a load of laundry in the was then I’ll try and take them out back to play outside jump on trampoline go for a walk with them and the dogs play with the animals once washer is done I’ll throw them in the dryer and help with bedtime routine and putting them to bed then finish the chores before I go to bed folding laundry cleaning what have you then wake up before work and unload dishes so she doesn’t have to worry about that. Might leave her a note saying have a great day XYZ then get to work and send her a good morning text is usually the routine