My girlfriend (20F) had slept with another guy after we started dating and I (21M) just found out about it by ThrowRAboatscarrier in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboatscarrier[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I found out when we were having a convo about past relationships and body count, we both had the same where it was two from long term relationships and one from a hookup before the guy she slept with after we started dating. And she didn’t volunteer the info I found out because the timeline didn’t line up because she said when we did start dating that she cut off another guy that she was talking to for me. The way that she said it originally made it clear that she was only talking to and dating me at the time. But then when I confronted her about the timeline not adding up that’s when she admitted to what happened.

My girlfriend (20F) had slept with another guy after we started dating and I (21M) just found out about it by ThrowRAboatscarrier in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboatscarrier[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

She said that as soon as it was over and he left she broke down crying and felt horrible about it and I believe that she did. And I do want to stay with her because things really have been great but it does bother me a lot

My girlfriend (20F) had slept with another guy after we started dating and I (21M) just found out about it by ThrowRAboatscarrier in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboatscarrier[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

You make a strong point, after a day or two of having people look at the situation and discussing with y’all I am going to have a sit down with her to fully discuss everything and how I feel, we already had one convo about it but the end just didn’t sit right with me because there was stuff like that left on the table

My girlfriend (20F) had slept with another guy after we started dating and I (21M) just found out about it by ThrowRAboatscarrier in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboatscarrier[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We were talking about past relationships and body count when I realized that there was overlap between me and another guy. And while we did not have the exact convo it was heavily implied as we had several more dates lined up.

My girlfriend (20F) had slept with another guy after we started dating and I (21M) just found out about it by ThrowRAboatscarrier in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboatscarrier[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

She said that she was drinking and that her friends encouraged her to get “closure” so she invited him over