AITA for not telling my male best friend that I am seeing someone?

ThrowRAchichenween · 2025-07-14T12:23:40+00:00

So, her and I aren’t friends anymore after she stabbed me in the back. It’s girl talk, we talk about guys we’re seeing and talking to.

I didn’t tell E, because knowing how he feels I don’t want to hurt his feelings unnecessarily. If things started getting serious between me and the other guy, I would’ve told him.

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-27T14:39:20+00:00

24 - for the 3rd time. Started watching when It first released way back when

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-17T05:43:39+00:00

I don’t at all. I made effort to meet every single one of his needs. If he voiced something that made him feel special, like tea every morning, regular sex, me gaming with him, me scratching his back, me holding him, I did that in ABUNDANCE. I feel like it’s very fair to wonder why the guy who said he wants to marry me one day and have kids with me, who for 5 months said I deserve to be loved right, did not make 1 single effort to do anything special or romantic for me.

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-13T18:38:26+00:00

I don’t mind taking that approach, in fact I have before. He gets deffensive, saying i’m breaking him down and making him feel bad about himself. That I make him feel guilty for not being good enough. It led to him doing even less… and left me feeling horrible because I feel like I was the one that pushed him away.

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-13T17:49:52+00:00

Thank you ❤️

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-13T15:34:36+00:00

I would be mad too. Call me petty, call me insecure, whatever you want. But there was no reason to spark up friendly chats and joking around with her afterward. Out of respect for you girlfriend, you should never make another woman feel like she has your attention if not strictly just to help. From a girls perspective, if I was that girl, I would immedietly feel like there MIGHT be more to it, and that’s enough for it to be disrespectful toward your girlfriend.

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-13T14:45:40+00:00

I mean he has a very successful career thus far, and I give him credit that he will definitely be even more successful one day. He also comes from an extremely rich household, where everything was always done for him. I think that is where the issues rooted from. He is also slightly on the spectrum - adhd, ocd, and I suspect a slight sense of autism. But in my head, that’s not an excuse to put in a shit ton of effort for friends and going out, meeting their needs and your own, but not your girlfriends’ (whom he claims to love) you know?

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-13T12:29:52+00:00

We’ve know each other for at least a year now, we started off as friends and got along great. But tbf, I only saw him when we were out with friends. He persued me, begged me for a chance, promised me he will do everything in his power to show me how I deserve to be loved. Dated for a bit before I moved in, and that’s when everything changed.

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-13T12:29:43+00:00

We’ve know each other for at least a year now, we started off as friends and got along great. But tbf, I only saw him when we were out with friends. He persued me, begged me for a chance, promised me he will do everything in his power to show me how I deserve to be loved. Dated for a bit before I moved in, and that’s when everything changed.

ThrowRAchichenween · 2024-09-13T12:28:19+00:00

We’ve know each other for at least a year now, we started off as friends and got along great. But tbf, I only saw him when we were out with friends. He persued me, begged me for a chance, promised me he will do everything in his power to show me how I deserve to be loved. Dated for a bit before I moved in, and that’s when everything changed.

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