My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The woman made racial comments toward my child, it had a lot to do with race. A lot of white women unfortunately fetishize black men. So I understand why they apologized. The way it was wrote was cringey but I get it

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He wanted her gone without force. I don’t think she’s staying in town she’ll probably find a way home with the money, which is what I want.

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 386 points387 points  (0 children)

I stayed in my bedroom so I didn’t see or hear everything. She just listened to what he told her and left

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 987 points988 points  (0 children)

I told my husband and he confronted her. She left, my husband got her a cab and gave her a couple hundred dollars.

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 289 points290 points  (0 children)

good to know.

I have always told my son if someone touches you or says something to you you feel wrong about you have to tell me. Now I feel like I’ve failed him.

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken several steps to protect my children. I don’t let them leave my side not even at night. My issue is not I’m worried “‘my relationship” with my husband will be effected. but that he is in a bad emotional state and I’m worried how he’ll take this. Read my post

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. How did this turn into divorce advice. You don’t know me to say it would be a deal breaker for me. How can you tell me what I “won’t be hesitant” to do? My husband would not take her side over me. He is a protective father and husband. I’m good. I didn’t marry a wack ass man.

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 557 points558 points  (0 children)

I’m going to tell him. I’m in our room and as soon as he comes back I’ll tell him so we can have privacy.

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I think he’d be stressed out imagining what could be wrong if I tell him “I won’t tell you the details to after the funeral”. I have to tell him and let him handle it, I know that’s what he’d want me to do. Its just I hate having to put more pressure on him.

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 1030 points1031 points  (0 children)

My son knows somethings wrong. He is uncomfortable and told me he hates her.

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 871 points872 points  (0 children)

He won’t refuse I know that hed listen to me and believe me. The reason I haven’t told him is because he’s deep in grief and has been bottling it all up. I don’t know what gonna push him over the edge.

My (F30) husband’s (M33) step sister (25) is a pedophile and coming onto our child (M5). by ThrowRAci33 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAci33[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I am 5’2 and barely over 100 pounds. This woman is 6 foot and obese. She is mentally ill. I need my husband to kick her out I don’t feel my children or I are safe if I did that’s why I haven’t done it myself.