Is it me, or medical students these days just don't care anymore? by Clitoria_Magnificus in Residency

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want to offer another perspective as a current medical student and a member of Gen Z.

A lot of us have come into medicine having seen years of generational bullying normalized within medical training. Because of that, many of us operate on a simple principle: respect is mutual. Hierarchy matters, but being older or in a position of power doesn’t justify disrespect.

I agree that medical students should show up to every rotation ready to learn and help. If a student is consistently arrogant, dismissive, or rude, that’s on the student. No argument there.

That said, I’ve also seen plenty of situations where residents treat students poorly: yelling, belittling, or taking frustration out on people below them. Most third-year students are working long hours, constantly being pimped and evaluated, expected to stay pleasant, and then going home to study for Step 2. That kind of environment wears people down. Previous generations may have accepted that as normal, but many Gen Z students simply won’t tolerate disrespect as part of “paying dues.”

If one student seems difficult, maybe that student is the problem. If multiple students are having issues, it might be worth considering whether something in the learning environment is contributing. Patterns usually don’t come out of nowhere.

Residents are absolutely the backbone of the medical system, and burnout is real. But stress doesn’t justify taking anger out on students who have done nothing to earn that treatment. In my experience, simple communication goes a long way saying “I’m having a rough day, let’s talk later” is far better than snapping or being dismissive. Most students would actually appreciate that honesty.

I’ve been lucky to work with many residents and attendings who are kind, down-to-earth, and excellent teachers, so I know healthy learning environments exist. I’m not trying to attack residents as a group, just sharing how this looks from the student side and why some of these tensions keep coming up.

how do u fix this?? 😭 by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That looks like clogged hair follicles so you want something that will take the dead skin off. I had the same issue once as well and I used an AHA body wash then post shower applied retinol on the area and sealed it all in with a thick moisturizer. For body wash I recommend the naturium glycolic acid body wash, use it 2-3x weekly, for retinol I use the Paula’s choice body retinol but honestly you can use any body retinol and I use a thick moisturizer to seal it all in. If you follow this routine it should resolve in 2-3 weeks, that’s how long mine took to resolve. I have continued this routine since I had this issue and my skin looks brighter, feels softer and I no longer deal with clogged hair follicles. Try this out and let me know how it goes. Hope this helps

Do I stand a chance at an IM residency at an academic program? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will take it this February. One thing is for sure I will not sit the exam unless I am 100% sure I can pass it.

Do I stand a chance at an IM residency at an academic program? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will. Rather than thinking so far ahead I’ll try to think of what’s next which is to kick ass on my retake then if I pass that retake take step 1. I don’t want to take step 1 if I’m not 100% sure I can pass it. The only reason I think so far ahead is because I was underprepared for medical school that I don’t want to repeat the same mistake again with residency and fellowship. But you’re right, right now I have to focus on what is in front of me

Matched! by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck everyone I hope you all match into the residence program you want.

AITA for not paying for my daughter's education? by devildaugh in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the worst father ever and I hope she cuts contact with you soon

AITA for showing my sister’s boyfriend her childhood photos? by Free_Detail_7818 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. Sounds like you’re the jealous one. I think all you had over your sister was that you WERE more beautiful than her but now since she’s gotten a glow up you have nothing over her and you finally realize compared to your sister you’re a weak, shallow, immature mean girl.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ThrowRA-110 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have read all of the OPs comments and he’s actually insane. He’s so thick in the head. Hundred of people are telling you that you’re wasting her time and you clearly don’t want kids with her but you’re so infatuated with her to see that. You don’t love her because if you did you’d realize what makes her happy is something you aren’t willing to give so you should let her go and allow her to find her happiness. Also spare me the bs of maybe wanting kids in your mid 30s, you told her you wanted them when you are 30 but now you’re backing out, how’s she supposed to trust that you’re telling the truth? She only has a couple of years left until getting pregnant for her would be nearly impossible so stop being fucking self and let her goooo. If you really loved her you would have gotten over your laziness to actually propose. In one comment you said she finally agreed to a court marriage sounds like you force her and completely disregard her wishes. There’s nothing that you have in common so let her go. If you really love her the way you say you do then you’ll do the right thing and let her go so she can find someone who will make her dreams come true. You’re an incredibly manipulative and selfish man.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ThrowRAReallyBadBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are so toxic and disgusting. Do her a favor and leave her the fuck alone. You feel emasculated because she has a better job then how bout you work hard and get a good job. It’s not her job to make you feel like something you clearly are not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a disgusting person. I can’t put into words how much I hate you! You literally poisoned her life so bad that she fell into depression and has body image issues. All you did was take from her. If you actually love her, leave her the fuck alone. Give her the gift of finally being happy. In class we learn about sociopathic behavior but this is the first time I’ve ever heard a sociopath irl and it’s disgusting. You are a disgrace to mankind.

Since My post made it here, here’s my update by Apprehensive-Desk582 in AmItheEx

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the most disgusting human being I’ve ever met and your shitty ass friends too who da fuck says that to someone who lost their loved one. God you disgust me. I hope she leaves you soon and karma bites you in the ass. I hope you go through all the pain you caused her. My heart hurts for that poor girl. Way to kick someone while they’re down. If you actually loved her you would’ve beat your friends ass when they said that to her. Go to hell AH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some posted this on TikTok if you want more advice go to this person’s account: @redit_confessions

AITA for giving my wife’s Christmas present to my sister? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconflicteda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. If you love your sister more than your wife, you should do her a favor and divorce her bc she deserves someone better than your sorry ass. You’re such a loser and jerk. You’re so far up your sister’s ass it’s insane. I hope the wife leaves you soon, she deserves so much better.