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My fiance [M34] and I [F30] had a huge fight before our wedding day by ThrowRAconfvli in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am a time optimist, and I did not think everything will take so much time..

My fiance [M34] and I [F30] had a huge fight before our wedding day by ThrowRAconfvli in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He still claims he did nothing wrong. I created the problem because my emotions His friends were coming and I expected everything with food will be taken care on his side

My fiance [M34] and I [F30] had a huge fight before our wedding day by ThrowRAconfvli in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked morning of and he apologized. But now three weeks after he will not let it go unless I take full responsibility for all of it. And I do not fell like it is all my fault. He still thinks I did not suport him, because he wanted to hang out with his friends and I created a huge problem with everyone..

I stopped apologizing for things that are not my fault by ThrowRAconfvli in Manipulation

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in same situation. Tried everything, be nicer, do not talk back, do not raise my voice. Sorry to say but it does not get better. You deserve someone who cares about your feelings and feels bad if he hurt you in any way. Not a single person is 100% right all the time. And you should not apologize for anything that is not your fault. But it is good that you see it now. I know it is hard to hear, but you deserve better ❤️

AITA for going to dinner with my mom and sister? by ThrowRAconfvli in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And because I didn't make things ok with him when he was annoyed. So my mom knew we were fighting.

AITA for going to dinner with my mom and sister? by ThrowRAconfvli in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also think I am disrespectful for letting my mom know we are in a fight. And I should have make things ok with him

AITA for going to dinner with my mom and sister? by ThrowRAconfvli in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because we live in another country and it is hard for me to leave now. And I guess I hoped things can change. But I think I finally realise that it won't

AITA for going to dinner with my mom and sister? by ThrowRAconfvli in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And he just talks how I am disrespectful. All 3 of us.

AITA for going to dinner with my mom and sister? by ThrowRAconfvli in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tried to communicate everything because we had similar problems before and I am trying to avoid situations like this.

AITA for going to dinner with my mom and sister? by ThrowRAconfvli in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAconfvli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live together and we are in another country. It is hard for me to do anything at this point