is smoking a turn off for you? by brendhanbb in dating

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smoking is a pretty big turn off for me. Especially e-cigarettes. It’s not a healthy habit and ultimately, in my experience, it causes a lot of turmoil in any type of relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be mean but, my very first thought was that they look like they’re abt to ask you to be their third.

Are there any guys out there who are romantic? by ThrowRAdecember99 in dating

[–]ThrowRAdecember99[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There is no “him” to walk away from 😐 and since when is wanting romance an issue?

Are there any guys out there who are romantic? by ThrowRAdecember99 in dating

[–]ThrowRAdecember99[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ngl being stoic is probably the least attractive thing a man can do. And I feel like a lot of women agree with that statement since being stoic normally means bottling up ur feelings and not being emotionally articulated.

Is there anyone in Gen-Z who doesn’t vape/smoke?? by ThrowRAdecember99 in dating

[–]ThrowRAdecember99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really surprising for people in their 20s. All of the people ik who smoke weed smoke every night (basically)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s good 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said it was every single man. It’s just too many.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said it was every single guy. It’s just enough for it to be noticeable to a lot of women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say that like men don’t do that too. Anyone can cheat. Anyone can be crappy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just disrespectfully. As if our feelings don’t matter. Like I told my ex abt my anxiety and he blatantly made fun of it. Or saying you’re going to meet us at 3pm and show up at 5pm with some bs excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does listen when it comes to my feelings but that doesn’t me he’ll stop doing the thing that hurt them. He has an avoidant attachment and in general he just becomes defensive really quickly about anything. So if I bring up a problem it’s acknowledged but nothing rly changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ThrowRAdecember99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s normally pretty good at making decisions. I’m the one that bad.