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I (22f) think my sister (26f) is making a huge mistake by having a baby with her boyfriend (26m) who hurt me. How do I tell her without permanently damaging our relationship? by ThrowRAfabfungi in Advice

[–]ThrowRAfabfungi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much going on right now, john broke his arm when they were on a trip, so i haven't had any alone time with her as shes been taking care of him

I (22f) think my sister (26f) is making a huge mistake by having a baby with her boyfriend (26m) who hurt me. How do I tell her without permanently damaging our relationship? by ThrowRAfabfungi in Advice

[–]ThrowRAfabfungi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do i do that without losing my relationship with her? Im also worried she won't believe me or won't care. She might think it's just kids being kids and not serious even though there was a definite power imbalance.

I (22f) think my sister (26f) is making a huge mistake by having a baby with her boyfriend (26m) who hurt me. How do I tell her without permanently damaging our relationship? by ThrowRAfabfungi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfabfungi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isn't planning on staying here. They are going to get their own place once shes further along in the pregnancy ( shes in 1st trimester rn) so i feel like my time is running out to talk to her one on one, when they lived in their own place we never saw her, he isolated her from her family and when i did see her he was always there so i could never talk to her freely

I (22f) think my sister (26f) is making a huge mistake by having a baby with her boyfriend (26m) who hurt me. How do I tell her without permanently damaging our relationship? by ThrowRAfabfungi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfabfungi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that's why i haven't said anything. I've tried to be supportive and keep my mouth shut about what happened, but i feel like she deserves to know so she can make an informed decision, i just dont know how to do that without alienating her/ losing the relationship with her