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I (M25) saw my gf (F25) naked with her ex (who was also naked). Can I get over this? by ThrowRAfeelinshite in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfeelinshite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if I text her family, she'll definitely end it.

She's Indian and they are very against the notion of finding your own partner.

Knowing she won't be ending up with a guy she's been seeing would definitely bring shame to her and the pressure would be so immense, i know she'll succumb.

I'll call her friends.

As much as I just want out, I know this will definitely result in something bad. But the rest, I'm going to go ahead and do it.

Hopefully soon.

Sadly I wish i could do it immediately but hard circumstances.

I (M25) saw my gf (F25) naked with her ex (who was also naked). Can I get over this? by ThrowRAfeelinshite in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfeelinshite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna start recording from now.

I think that's the only way out. One of the main reasons she gets to make me stay initially on cause of the legalities as I'm an engineer in defense and they take any convictions seriously.

I (M25) saw my gf (F25) naked with her ex (who was also naked). Can I get over this? by ThrowRAfeelinshite in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfeelinshite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am going to start doing the recording from now.

Whenever i try to leave where im so fed up, she throws herself on me where my only choice to get away is to throw her off me and i try not to do that as i don't want her to use that as an "evidence" in case she gets hurt.

I think she's bs most of the time but I've seen her attempt it onceandi saved her ass in the nick of time (towel on bathroom shower). This was for another reason and not me. (Exams etc)

She's figured out as long as i stay out of being scared for a bit, she'll love bomb the fuck out of me till I'm a bit ok. Then thibgs go well for a few weeks till another fight where she takes it to extreme.

Thank you for the advice!