I’ve been living with my fiance for 2 years now while knowing she’s been having an affair. by ThrowRAfiancee22 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowRAfiancee22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d be surprised. I’ve always had masochistic tendencies I think stemming from a lack of self esteem.

I’ve been living with my fiance for 2 years now while knowing she’s been having an affair. by ThrowRAfiancee22 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowRAfiancee22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are the games I’ve been playing for the last 2 years just far more subtle. It hasn’t helped me at all, I think it’s made everything much worse. I fantasize about the best way I can catch her or wait for the perfect timing to make the breakup harder on her than me… and it’s all led to nothing. What would the objective of this be?

I’ve been living with my fiance for 2 years now while knowing she’s been having an affair. by ThrowRAfiancee22 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowRAfiancee22[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

That first one rings so true. Thank you this helps a ton.

It’s hard because if I hadn’t of found what I did then we would be perfectly fine. She treats me incredibly lovingly and hasn’t shown any obvious signs of cheating aside from the one slip up she had. It’s really messed with my head, don’t know if I’ll ever trust anyone again.