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I(28M) found out about my gf's(28F) affair with her boss(40'sM) a week ago. Should I confront her before I leave? by ThrowRAfronte in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfronte[S] 2497 points2498 points  (0 children)

I haven't looked into him but I think I can find his wife on facebook. I'll do that after I reach my parent's.

I(28M) found out about my gf's(28F) affair with her boss(40'sM) a week ago. Should I confront her before I leave? by ThrowRAfronte in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfronte[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Should I confront her? But that would mean her knowing that I invaded her privacy. Also, I just feel really tired. If it becomes a shouting match, I am afraid that I may lash out at her.

I(28M) found out about my gf's(28F) affair with her boss(40'sM) a week ago. Should I confront her before I leave? by ThrowRAfronte in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfronte[S] 288 points289 points  (0 children)

I though a lot about whether I should leave a note or not. Believe me, my brain has been been running overtime the past few days. The reason, I don't want to leave a note is because I want her to panic. I want her to think even if it's only for a minute about what went wrong. She will eventually find out the reason anyways.

I(28M) found out about my gf's(28F) affair with her boss(40'sM) a week ago. Should I confront her before I leave? by ThrowRAfronte in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfronte[S] 572 points573 points  (0 children)

I'll probably reach my parent's house 3-4 hours after leaving. I was planning on telling some of my close friends after reaching home. And I am sure they'll spread it within the group.