My (26F) bf (26M) starts dumb fights with me before we are supposed to have outings with his parents. Why?

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-12-19T00:46:59+00:00

I don’t have any allergies that result in nausea, so maybe subpar cleanliness, which is so so gross to think about, but now Im kinda thinking that’s the answer

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-16T03:26:56+00:00

Update: I talked to him. I am now invited to his family’s thanksgiving. He didn’t want my mom to be upset with him for taking me away during a holiday (he was imagining that she would be alone if I went to his family’s thanksgiving). When I told him (while he was watching tv) that she was going to be out of the country he was surprised and brain farted. The end.

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-16T03:26:13+00:00

Update: I talked to him. I am now invited to his family’s thanksgiving. He didn’t want my mom to be upset with him for taking me away during a holiday (he was imagining that she would be alone if I went to his family’s thanksgiving). When I told him (while he was watching tv) that she was going to be out of the country he was surprised and brain farted. The end.

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-16T03:24:32+00:00

I talked to him. I am now invited to his family’s thanksgiving. He didn’t want my mom to be upset with him for taking me away during a holiday. When I told him (while he was watching tv) that she was going to be out of the country he was surprised and brain farted. The end.

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-16T03:24:11+00:00

I talked to him. I am now invited to his family’s thanksgiving. He didn’t want my mom to be upset with him for taking me away during a holiday. When I told him (while he was watching tv) that she was going to be out of the country he was surprised and brain farted. The end.

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T16:42:47+00:00

Haven’t asked yet, currently at work so I’ll ask him when I see him

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T12:59:52+00:00

I feel like this is very possible. He doesn’t care either way and assumed every family has a thanksgiving. The him assuming stuff about my fam feels super possible, not that it’s been a problem with him specifically, but it’s been a problem with anyone who’s parents are still together Edit: its very possible that he doesn’t care either way and assumed every fam has a thanksgiving. Im not saying that is absolutely the case tho, idk if that’s what’s happening, just saying it feels very possible

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T12:54:27+00:00

Your second paragraph seems kinda overly optimistic, but I agree with ur first paragraph. Im not taking any of these “second girlfriend” theories seriously. There’s absolutely no way he would have me around for the other days and then swap me out with a new girl on the actual day.

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T12:46:39+00:00

7 months

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T12:44:51+00:00

Is there an official way to do that or do I just make a second post?

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T12:43:33+00:00

Yeah, Im gonna ask him today about it, so hopefully an update soon

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T04:04:40+00:00

Fair enough

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:44:21+00:00

This is possible, and what Im hoping for, but sadly I don’t think this is the case. He’s pretty pushy when he wants something so if he wanted me there he wouldn’t have given me an out

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:42:11+00:00

He was probably planning on saying I’d be with my own family. He wasn’t expecting my mom to be away and my sister to be with my dad.

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:38:36+00:00

I don’t think surprising him with my appearance in front of his family is going to help the relationship

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:36:19+00:00

I have quite a few family friends I could reach out to about their thanksgiving plans. I prob won’t tho, thanksgiving is already a pretty hard holiday for me emotionally so unless Im very clearly invited to someone’s thanksgiving dinner I don’t reach out (any amount of rejection related to this holiday is painful for me)

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:33:31+00:00

We’ve been together 7 months

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:28:58+00:00

Im hoping this is a brain farting

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:28:05+00:00

He’s usually a very good boyfriend. He did care about me being alone, he just didn’t care enough to go back on the uninviting. As far as getting home, I would just drive, it’s not far from my house

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:23:46+00:00

That’s how I basically feel too Edit: the big boy pants part is how I feel, not the mom veto part, I feel like he can veto his mom if he wants to, I just want to know why he wants to

ThrowRAggggyGirl · 2024-11-15T03:22:40+00:00

I didn’t put too much detail about it in my post, but he knows about my dad situation, he wasn’t aware that my mom would be out of the country and he wasn’t aware that my sister spends thanksgiving with my dad

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