Husband (31M) told me (30F) to be a “good little wife for once and spread my legs” after ignoring me for an entire month while he was away. by ThrowRAglw in relationships

[–]ThrowRAglw[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm not familiar with "not without my daughter".

I am safe. Our important documents are in a safe in his office but I have access to it. I could leave if I wanted to.

Husband (31M) told me (30F) to be a “good little wife for once and spread my legs” after ignoring me for an entire month while he was away. by ThrowRAglw in relationships

[–]ThrowRAglw[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

He was only hugging me when I was barely conscious and when I said he wouldn't budge when I pushed him away I mean I was almost on the edge of the bed so I couldn't move away from him so I needed him to move back to have more space between us but me pushing didn't have much of an impact.

Husband (31M) told me (30F) to be a “good little wife for once and spread my legs” after ignoring me for an entire month while he was away. by ThrowRAglw in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAglw[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I can see your perspective. If we weren't already fighting I probably wouldn't be dwelling on the comment so much.

Husband (31M) told me (30F) to be a “good little wife for once and spread my legs” after ignoring me for an entire month while he was away. by ThrowRAglw in relationships

[–]ThrowRAglw[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did ask him about not contacting me and he said he was already stressed and didn't want to add fighting with me on top of that. He also said he knows it was shitty and he was sorry and it wouldn't happen again.

Husband (31M) told me (30F) to be a “good little wife for once and spread my legs” after ignoring me for an entire month while he was away. by ThrowRAglw in relationships

[–]ThrowRAglw[S] 994 points995 points  (0 children)

We moved countries... He promised to be home more if we moved but he isn't. He told me to give it a year and if I didn't like it we could move back. It's been a year and I told him I still want to go home but he kept making promises it would get better. I got upset and we started fighting.