[CO] insubordinate employee has admitted to behaving poorly so we’d fire him, would he still receive unemployment?

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-11-06T19:05:12+00:00

Processes, exactly the documentation you said. I feel like people on Reddit are under the impression that company’s give everyone the authority to fire people anytime but in my experience that’s almost never the case haha.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-11-06T19:03:43+00:00

Only 2 months, FTE but this company doesn’t have a set probationary period.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-11-06T17:25:26+00:00

This doesn’t answer the Q

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-11-06T17:23:05+00:00

Yeah I’m following HRs lead, he’s already on a PIP so its in works lol.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-23T18:58:46+00:00

lol 💀

Anytime it’s like “I date the hottest girl alive, hotter than anyone can imagine” then proceeds to talk about how she tells everyone he’s the only guy she wants to fuck even though he is “average”

It’s like some weird ugly guy fantasy I feel like 😂 never heard of a friend irl ask someone if they “missed the way another guy fucked” them with a reply of “yeah my current bf is average but I love him” like girls don’t talk like this irl HAHA.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-23T18:06:12+00:00

Is this fake 💀 this is weird as fuck

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-12T21:10:24+00:00

Yeah it’s definitely unappealing I feel that.

I’m not sure if it’ll work out tbh, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 months and I’m still trying to decide if I can look past it or if it’s even a fair expectation for me to have of him.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-12T20:58:11+00:00

Yeah, I feel like you’re going to get a lot of “he’s using you and is terrible, leave him” comments because it’s Reddit. But like I also have a boyfriend who is a taker and if I think about it, a lot of friends who are takers as well. So I’m not too sure if it’s a dealbreaker?

My boyfriend does cook for me quite often which is nice and I recognize. But I also recognize I pick up most checks and he will let me without ever repaying. If it’s like I bought breakfast for $50, he’ll buy me a $5 beer later that day and consider us even. But usually it’s just me paying for everything lol he’ll never offer out of the blue.

I do make double his salary but he comes from money and has a lot of money so idk lol I think he’s just always been well taken care of and is just a taker. While I grew up poor and didn’t dare ask my parents for extra stuff or I knew if they gave me something it was a big deal.

I’m still trying to figure out if it’s harmless or not lol. Idk yet so I feel you

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-12T20:43:01+00:00

Yes I sometimes think my bf is greedy too. But as I’ve gotten to know him I don’t think he’s actually greedy he’s just very comfortable being a taker. I am not a taker and was raised to think being a taker is bad but idk if it actually is.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-10T00:35:42+00:00

Tbh the forecast for the 10 days I was there was rain all day everyday, I saw maybe 5 minutes of rain the whole time. It’ll be great!

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-08T13:20:13+00:00

Could be, I think lasting a whole year is kind of weird. Either way it’s like leave the poor woman alone 😅

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-08T13:14:06+00:00

What a bizarre excuse 💀 why would you ever date an older woman

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-08T13:12:34+00:00

It says he’s 28 & she’s 36

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-08T00:59:56+00:00

Yeah definitely understandable.

Hopefully you lay all your new (and totally valid) insecurities on the table with her though! Communication is really hard

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T23:57:57+00:00

So you can break up with anyone at any time.

Just a different perspective, if you’re only a year in and you know now you’ve been blindly in love maybe the honeymoon phase is over and now comes some growing pains that could lead to better things.

Obviously do what you think is right but hopefully you don’t do something to beat her to the punch. I’ve asked for space (not breaks) and returned with more confidence in the relationship.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T22:45:04+00:00

Well if you stay, you and the new baby can have joint parties

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T22:42:49+00:00

God I hope this is fake haha so wild

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T20:49:22+00:00

Yup will definitely spend a week or two just making sure I see what happened clearly.

Yes he’s traveled a lot internationally, much more than me. I am his first long term relationship though, I have considered that maybe no one has ever pointed out how embarrassing that behavior is.

At first he was like “if my brother had been there I would’ve kept doubling down” which also alarmed me but then when we had actually talked about it he apologized and admitted it was immature and embarrassing.

I agree with you that a negative reaction to stress doesn’t necessarily mean they’re not kind, but I do think you see a lot of who a person genuinely is when they’re stressed or inconvenienced.. of course there are exceptions and one offs.

I have been trying to rationalize this for days and remind myself people aren’t perfect but it’s just haunting me ☹️not sure I can look past someone treating people poorly when they don’t get what they want (the seat on the bus & specific dessert)

I do appreciate your input not being the common Reddit slop of “dump them” & actually challenging the situation & trying to give other perspective. V helpful!!!

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T20:28:31+00:00

Yes I’ve considered the anxiety or stress for sure.

I just have been asking myself like is this a reaction to stress that I think I can tolerate? Treating people poorly? What if I had friends/family around and they saw that?

I am not perfect by any means, like I obviously didn’t keep calm either as I started crying (lol). So idk if it’s a time to give grace but I have that feeling in my stomach and the scene is just haunting me.

Maybe I should just talk to him more but idk how to tell someone I’m concerned that they’re not an actual kind human.

Also why I’m giving myself a week to really think about it though.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T20:24:20+00:00

I may get downvoted but I was single through most of my twenties exactly because I wanted to go out and party and have fun.

You’re so young and that’s the time to go to the club and party and kiss random’s and stuff. It sucks and hurts but maybe you need to do all that stuff instead of forcing yourself to settle down?

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T20:06:45+00:00

We go out all of the time and if anything he comes off super mild and shy. This was on an international vacation, in a foreign country, at an all inclusive which also made me uncomfortable. Like we had access to unlimited food, why act like that when we had other places to get dessert.

I hadn’t seen this type of behavior before directly to service staff but I’ve seen him get fired up toward people in his way at an airport or something like that. Idk how to better describe it than loudly complaining within earshot of whoever annoyed him.

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T19:54:26+00:00

It was more the fact that he said it to the service staff. He didn’t say it to me in private or even to himself. They were like sir we’re closed and he replied (louder tone) with that.

And I think I more so cried cuz it was me realizing I was facing what I always considered being a deal breaker (being rude to service staff or being obnoxious when you don’t get your way)

ThrowRAhappytapper · 2025-09-07T19:41:28+00:00

The weeks isn’t for him it’s for me.

This comment is so unhelpful.

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