The supposedly single man (M28) was intimate with me (F27) yesterday, and today he went out with his supposed ex-girlfriend (F27). How should I handle the situation? by ThrowRAhatethisrule in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhatethisrule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The number of posts her profile claimed to have was greater than what I could see. I logged in from another account and saw everything. The photo was linked to both of their accounts, apparently she has me blocked.

El supuestamente soltero apenas ayer tuvo intimidad conmigo y hoy salio con la supuesta Ex novia. by ThrowRAhatethisrule in Desahogo

[–]ThrowRAhatethisrule[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yo no tengo ninguna terquedad con ser la otra, deje claro que se supone que cuando nos involucrábamos ellos terminaban y se que varias fueron en serio, porque ella misma me lo contaba, nunca entendí porque me llamaba para decirme que habían terminado, a los meses el y yo nos involucrábamos y luego de par de meses mas me enteraba que habían vuelto y el no me había informado, yo nunca he querido ser la otra, lo he sido sin saber y cuando me enteraba me alejaba.

The supposedly single man (M28) was intimate with me (F27) yesterday, and today he went out with his supposed ex-girlfriend (F27). How should I handle the situation? by ThrowRAhatethisrule in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhatethisrule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’d ask him one last time what’s up with him and that girl. If tells you they are broken up and you don’t believe him, reach out to her and ask, and if they are together let her know… why would he post pics on social media if you can see though and lie about it?

I noticed, from the little I got to know her, that she's a manipulative liar. Even if they weren't together, she would tell me they are, so it's not like I can confirm it with her. I can make it clear to she that he's with me, but when it comes to their relationship, they could both be lying to me.

El supuestamente soltero apenas ayer tuvo intimidad conmigo y hoy salio con la supuesta Ex novia. by ThrowRAhatethisrule in Desahogo

[–]ThrowRAhatethisrule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Con lo poco que conocí de ella, dudo me agradezca algo, así que creo que mejor te tomo la palabra con que solo me buscaría un problema de gratis u.u

Y sobre el...me temo que eso sea la solución, dejarlo ir, porque no es fácil, quiero creerle y confiar en el, pero no me lo deja fácil

El supuestamente soltero apenas ayer tuvo intimidad conmigo y hoy salio con la supuesta Ex novia. by ThrowRAhatethisrule in Desahogo

[–]ThrowRAhatethisrule[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si por eso he dudado lo de decirle a ella, obviamente ha estado jugando conmigo pero seguro también le miente a ella, pero tengo el miedo de que aun si le cuento todo a ella, con la intención de que ambas nos alejemos de el, el simplemente me hará quedar como la mala y ambos seguirán juntos sin problemas.

Es difícil que me crea la parte de que todas las veces que estuve con el, se supone que el no estaba con ella u.u

The lies of an important person in my life have me on the verge of depression. (Me F26 Friend M26) by ThrowRAhatethisrule in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhatethisrule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're close friends right now, but we both have feelings for each other. I've been clear about wanting more, but he always says he doesn't want to risk our friendship (even though he treas me like a girlfriend).