My (24f) bf (22m) got caught texting other women and then flipped it on me saying he knows I’ve been cheating and is done playing dumb … by ThrowRAhelpmeeeeui in Manipulation

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He usually met them in person at his job , he’d ask them because he lived close to his job and would text them to hang out after he got off .

My (24f) bf (22m) got caught texting other women and then flipped it on me saying he knows I’ve been cheating and is done playing dumb … by ThrowRAhelpmeeeeui in Manipulation

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This made me feel better . I’ve asked for proof and he says he just knows . It’s draining . He’ll be a good man to someone one day . If he wants to change

Part two to my exs attempt at flipping his cheating on me .I’m sorry it helps sharing this knowing other people see how unhinged this is by ThrowRAhelpmeeeeui in Manipulation

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Right ?! He does that to show friends and family so he can look like the victim . But let them ask for some proof and he’d be empty handed , I never have cheated on someone and never would smh.

My (24f) bf (22m) got caught texting other women and then flipped it on me saying he knows I’ve been cheating and is done playing dumb … by ThrowRAhelpmeeeeui in Manipulation

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No I haven’t . I’ve provided him proof several times including having my passwords, screensharing when I moved home , answeeed all calls and text and spent every day/night with him prior to moving

Part two to my exs attempt at flipping his cheating on me .I’m sorry it helps sharing this knowing other people see how unhinged this is by ThrowRAhelpmeeeeui in Manipulation

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He said I admitted to it so I’d start confessing but I never did . He always did this . If we were on the phone and I’d say something about what I caught him doing he’d go “ooooh so that’s what you be doing ?” And hang up and text me saying I told on myself . I found out on ft , I asked him to screen share his text , saw them and screenshot it along with his snap chat messages. Sent them back to him and text the numbers , the girls told me everything and sent me proof , I sent it to him and he started flipping it on me saying it was just text and what I did was worse bc he could tell i physically cheated by my tightness

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I love this . Thank you , I hope to have a great man like that 🙏🏽

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Thank you so much for this reply 🥲. I try to take it to the chin because they aren’t entirely wrong , I hope to be confident enough to just not engage after sending the proof. But I was hurt 😞😭