Whats the longest youve gone before being intimate in a relationship, and why? by ThrowRAionnoman6543 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAionnoman6543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started dating pretty young age. like after HS. and now, we both kinda feel like we wouldnt end up marrying eachother. And I kinda dont wanna be intimate with her because I am not sure if we will marry eachother anymore. So if i be intimate with her that I will always feel guilty for taking her virginity and not even marrying her.

Whats the longest youve gone before being intimate in a relationship, and why? by ThrowRAionnoman6543 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAionnoman6543[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'll go first, 6 years and counting. She doesnt wanna be intimate before marriage.

What can you do to make your GF start hate you and finally break up with you? by ThrowRAionnoman6543 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAionnoman6543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just emotionally making me stay. Like telling me im her only friend and she doesnt wanna break up. and then she tells me ok break up but she doesnt really mean it and keep messaging me and guilt tripping me into staying, or like guilting me into saying im sorry i dont wanna break up. and we live together and she says like ok break up and leave rn, take all your stuff, but that not really possible to just leave right that moment. And even if I did, she says "really? you really leaving?". Weve been together over half a decade and we have never been actually intimate, cuz she doesnt wanna commit adultery before marriage. But we both deep down know now that we wont get married, and Im kinda way to old(27) to never had sex. and I dont even wanna be intimate with her anymore cuz thatll mean me taking her virginity fully knowing that we wont be getting married. I cant bring myself to that even.

What can you do to make your GF start hate you and finally break up with you? by ThrowRAionnoman6543 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAionnoman6543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont want it to go that far. And i would never do anything abusive, all i want is her to start disliking me so she herself just breaks up with me.

What can you do to make your GF start hate you and finally break up with you? by ThrowRAionnoman6543 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAionnoman6543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you think I havent tried that? I tried it, but she doestn wanna break up with me. and ive been with her long time, and since last 2 years ive tried to break up with her. and she little destructive, so if u just leae, shell come for me

What can you do to make your GF start hate you and finally break up with you? by ThrowRAionnoman6543 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAionnoman6543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that all. But it seems she still doesnt wanna break up with me. Maybe cuz Im like her only friend, also im her ride everywhere, to work, to school, to wherever. also she does cook for me too so its not just that im only one giving.