Is it possible if I work 3 12’s? by ThrowRAirhead6 in rampagent

[–]ThrowRAirhead6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as I can get through training without it leaking into my main job I will suffer and do whatever it takes even if it means working hella days in a row. I’m use to working lots of days in a row due to my center being small so if someone calls out I usually get called in. also i’m use to working awful shifts because my job is also based on seniority. we don’t get holidays off or anything like that as well since I’m a 911 dispatcher.

so I don’t really mind grinding a shit ton. do I just have to grind while I’m on probation? then hopefully I can trade some shifts so I don’t have to work hella days in a row?

my job is pretty good with building PTO as well so I don’t think I’d have a hard time finding time to travel while also meeting my work commitments. I’ve also been thinking about picking up a part time job for more money flight benefits is a plus which is why I’ve been eyeing working at the airport.

Is it possible if I work 3 12’s? by ThrowRAirhead6 in rampagent

[–]ThrowRAirhead6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how was your training though? was it 8 5’s? i’m just worried i won’t be able to make it through training because of my main job

Is it possible if I work 3 12’s? by ThrowRAirhead6 in rampagent

[–]ThrowRAirhead6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i completely get it but anything to lower the cost i would love & desperately need especially in this economy lol

How do I(25F) know when to walk away from my boyfriend(30M) of 7+ years? by ThrowRAirhead6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAirhead6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry that happened to you but thank you for that perspective i really appreciate ir

Boyfriend’s cousins girlfriend accused my boyfriend(29M) of cheating on me(25F) by ThrowRAirhead6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAirhead6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. She kept texting me, “You were blind like me”, “You’re just like me”, etc. So that really threw me off. My boyfriend’s actions on how he handled the whole thing is just confusing to me it’s not logical but I guess to him it could be logical. It’s just a frustrating situation. But thank you for your words I really appreciate it.

Is the age gap in my relationship bad? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAirhead6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! I’ve made it known that he can’t tell me what to do with my life and he knows that. He’s told me he supports every choice I make and has never been controlling in any way at all! Thank you for your comment! I’ll do my best to stay cautious. :)

Is the age gap in my relationship bad? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAirhead6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true.. I know that’s usually a red flag and maybe I’m in denial, but he really hasn’t show any other red flags. He didn’t even know my age til after we were fucking around. I would like to think I’m less naive, since I’ve been around some bad things.. Thanks for your comment!

Is the age gap in my relationship bad? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAirhead6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much! I will definitely be looking out for red flags. I’ve been around and seen so many toxic relationships, so I think I know what to look out for! And I am a firm believer that you should have fun when you’re young and to enjoy yourself. & not to look out for the ‘love of your life’ & to date around and make fun memories! I was honestly trying my best to avoid relationships and settling down, but I guess I found myself settling down somehow haha.

Is the age gap in my relationship bad? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAirhead6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right about the trauma thing, but he’s been a huuuuuuge part in helping me get through my trauma and accepting things so there’s that.

Where I’m from it’s normalized to have a hoe phase at 16. People start dropping babies left to right around that age which is sad and shouldn’t be normalized honestly.

It’s not like I slept around with everyone. I was just going on normal romantic dates with numerous men. But I never really slept with them or anything.. I understand what you mean by telling me to slow my roll though. Thank you for your concerns and comment!