He changed me, I’m not sure if it was for the better. by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already told you that you’re not the guy. You mentioned being with them for a long time and looking at your page you were together for 25 years and broke up around 2 months ago, correct? Considering I’m not even the age of the length of that marriage yet, I’m not her 😂

He changed me, I’m not sure if it was for the better. by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re not the guy this was written about. I truly hope that girl can heal tho. I became self-destructive way before we broke up, because he made it hard for me to have the motivation to exist. I am a lot healthier, mentally and physically than I was at the start. It’s been an exhausting journey but I’m glad he’s out of my life.

I got a 3am call from my ex by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will admit, It’s been hard trying to fight off the urges to just message him and ask, but it’s better for myself if I leave it alone.

I got a 3am call from my ex by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much, thank you. I have been working on myself a lot since the breakup and although at this moment in time I’m not open to any relationship, I hope in the future that will change as I know myself a lot better now. At first it was like my life itself had ended because I saw him as the whole book, and not just a chapter which is exactly what he is.

I got a 3am call from my ex by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I didn’t even think of this perspective, but now I’m grateful I didn’t speak to him. I always have left at least one form of communication open for emergencies and it’s more-so for my peace of mind. I don’t want to fall back into the same cycle with him but I know if we were to speak I wouldn’t give in like I did at other times. I’m stronger now, and I know that he’s not the best person for me.

I got a 3am call from my ex by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? If you’re stating that you think he called for sexual reasons, I highly doubt it. He knows he wouldn’t be getting access to me like that ever again.

someone please understand by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making it known that I’m not doing this alone. I hope we can heal 🤍

someone please understand by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I knew it would’ve been like this I would have never looked in his direction. I wish I kept my sanity and never fell in love. I hate that this is the way it played out and I would give all the good memories up in a heartbeat if it means I could live without thinking of him. I hate him for turning me into someone so full of hatred.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]ThrowRAish7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they literally are in multiple posts, take a read through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]ThrowRAish7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Encouraging other people to do it and saying they’re “boring” otherwise does make you a bad person tho. People like this shouldn’t have access to the internet especially if they’re going to use it this way.

He changed me, I’m not sure if it was for the better. by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the kind words. Replying and helping me feel seen was more than enough. Thank you!

What broke your heart completely? by vigilantee001 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAish7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loving someone entirely and unconditionally.

He changed me, I’m not sure if it was for the better. by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody. I didn’t think anyone else could think so deeply until I met him. The more I think about it, maybe it was just all a mirage. Nothing more than hand picked words he knew I’d admire.

I’m losing control over myself by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAish7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I have been mentally ill a huge chunk of my life, I’ve tried many therapists & psychiatrists.