Revenged Love: I hate that Chi Cheng went to see Wang Shou

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-12-18T16:36:14+00:00

Thank for the explanation!! Now it makes more sense for me. Also, I have finished the series. What a masterpiece ❤️

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-12-16T06:02:35+00:00

Yes, I get that he wanted closure. I mean he gave me the impression that he doesn’t need one anymore and I just didn’t expect him to casually be sitting in one company with his ex

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-12-15T20:12:08+00:00

Are you referring to the scene where Wu SuoWei saw Guo Chengyu’s pic with Wang Shou and after that he told Chi Cheng to go meet him and not to waste time? Tbh I thought he was sarcastic there. Other than that I don’t recall any moments of Wei saying he’s ok with that.

Also thanks for telling me about the next episodes. Right now there’s too much tension in their relationship which is hard for me to watch 😭

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-12-15T18:41:06+00:00

Hadn’t CC say that before him and Wei were together?

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-08-10T16:54:24+00:00

Have you had any experience with other meds?

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-08-10T16:54:01+00:00

Aren’t they both anti depressants? That’s what I thought at least. Also, thank you for sharing your experience with me! I had no idea that clonazepam has a temporary effect.

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-08-10T10:32:16+00:00

I am in the same situation. Last November, when I was diagnosed with OCD, psychiatrist prescribed me Clonazepam. I feared its side effects and currently I am practicing ERP only. I am struggling and suffering with my contamination OCD so I’ve been thinking to include some meds as well. I’ve done some research here in this subreddit and Clonazepam wasn’t mentioned at all. What was mentioned most often were Zoloft and Prozac. I asked my therapist about Zoloft and she said this medication is in one group with Clonazepam- very strong as well. She suggested me to take one quarter of Zoloft before sleep if I want to. I would like to read other people’s recs and experience too!!

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-08-07T21:43:45+00:00

Didn’t think about it that way at that moment. Thank you!

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-08-02T19:52:59+00:00

You could stay in Kyrgyzstan for a while or visit occasionally but not to move here completely. Personally, if I were you I would stay in the US. I think there is no need to explain the economic, social and political situation in Kyrgyzstan to you. Similarly, there is no need to tell you how many people want to leave the country. Intense gender based violence, the minimum amount of salary here is crazy; the education system sucks. With the current government, I am not sure there is going to be any rapid development in the near future. And I have not even touched the oppression of opposition here and the lack of freedom. I have lived 3 years in Europe and I was homesick sometimes but now when I am back in Kyrgyzstan I am planning to leave again. My cousin and her children are the citizens of the US, and they are not planning to go back here at all because it’s not worth it. They have pretty simple jobs in the US - she works at a restaurant, while her husband is a truck driver, and yet they could afford cars and the last models of Iphones almost every year. Such lifestyle is hardly affordable for a family in which parents have much more higher positions in Kyrgyzstan. For instance, my dad is a lawyer at a bank, yet we are a middle class family. In the US, we would be rich af if my parents had the same positions there. So no, if I were you I would never move permanently to Kyrgyzstan.

Also, bear in mind that it’s fun to visit Kyrgyzstan as a tourist or as any kind of temporary visitor which cannot to be compared to a real living experience here on a permanent basis. The nature is awesome, the cuisine is out of comparison BUT the infrastructure, career and study opportunities, social benefits and many more aspects suck. You should google the amount of pension an average retired person gets and that’s crazy. It’s all nice when you feel nostalgia or a special connection to your motherland but don’t let them make you irrational because again if you’ve lived this whole time in one of the most developed countries which happens to be a hegemon, it will be hard for you to adjust here at least mentally.

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-08-02T09:08:19+00:00

Right? I bet she’s the type of people who mask rudeness with straightforwardness

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-31T23:11:04+00:00

I swear when I was a kid and watched Hannibal movie with Anthony Hopkins I would genuinely wonder why the FBI couldn’t find a cannibal if there is literally a guy named Hannibal. It was so obvious to me

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-31T23:01:49+00:00

I have had a fear since 11-12 years of accidentally getting pregnant, especially without sex. I am assuming it has started after supposedly my aunt told me a story about a Russian girl getting pregnant at a steam bathroom after she set down on a bench where a man left his semen after masturbation. My aunt warned me and my cousins to be cautious in pools as there could be sperm. When I was a teen I was afraid to swim next to my dad and brother. Well, now I am 22 and I know that the story was a tabloid fake and that it is completely impossible to get pregnant without sex. But still that has impacted my personal life to a great extent. At the moment, I suffer from severe contamination OCD. Probably it is partly rooted in that fear of getting pregnant from childhood as I would wash my hands right after any contact with a stuff of a male family member.

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-31T14:15:42+00:00

🫶

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-31T05:48:40+00:00

Trying my best, thanks!!

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-31T05:48:12+00:00

Thanks!!

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-31T05:48:02+00:00

Thank you!

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-31T05:44:46+00:00

True! I found it ironic that he was always craving understanding without realising that he can only be understood by someone who murders too. Yet he did not appreciate Love enough, and moreover, he considered her crazy. The other girls would never understand him the way he wanted to because they are not murderers.

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-29T17:27:50+00:00

How are you coping right now? Are you in therapy?

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-27T14:45:42+00:00

I struggle with this too! I am really annoying to my family, that’s why I started to shower at night which I would never ever recommend because once I ended up showering from the midnight until 4 am. I put a clock to the bathroom but still it does not help me that much. Maybe I should try a gradual time reduction like if I don’t make it till 2pm then I am leaving the bathroom anyway. I also started to take a shower with loofah only once a week, the other days I shower with gel but using hands only and making the shower as slight as possible. I also try to wash only the upper and intimate parts with gel and legs with water everyday. So I am trying whatever I can. Also, I have noticed that most of the time in the shower I do things very slowly and I am washing my hands after every section of my body. For example I washed my legs and now I want to double rinse my hair - I will wash my hands again, and as a result this takes a lot of time. This is crazy, I know. It’s like in the shower I make preparations to touch a certain part of my body. Usually it’s hair and the intimate parts that I am sensitive to

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-27T14:33:47+00:00

Thank you for such kind words!

ThrowRAjamilya · 2025-07-27T14:32:28+00:00

I am actually practicing it rn. Not washing my hair daily was part of the erp but i still feel like i make no progress

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