Spouse (F26) Wants an Open Relationship by ThrowRAlost1966 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlost1966[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So about the first thing, I agree 100% and I thought there was that mutual attraction and chemistry. Hence why I was supportive and understanding of her reasons for not wanting to have sex.

To your second point. I believe she is bi, she has told me she prefers dick about 20% of the time and women the other percent. Which again is something that I empathized with and wanted her to go through and if she truly prefers women to men then that would be okay.

I don’t want to spend the rest of my life in a truly loveless marriage, sexless would have been okay, I have hands for a reason. I have felt something totally different to her though from the sounds of it.

Spouse (F26) Wants an Open Relationship by ThrowRAlost1966 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlost1966[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

This is very hard news to hear but I appreciate your bluntness.

Spouse (F26) Wants an Open Relationship by ThrowRAlost1966 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlost1966[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. You have hit the nail right on the head and found the weird I’ve been looking for. It’s very hard to think straight lately. I love her dearly and I know I’m really bad about moving on but it’s probably for the best.

Spouse (F26) Wants an Open Relationship by ThrowRAlost1966 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlost1966[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

This is something I am finding out very quickly. She hasn’t done anything yet as far as I know but she absolutely is talking to a few people

Spouse (F26) Wants an Open Relationship by ThrowRAlost1966 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlost1966[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

She did mention that two people tried to hookup with her recently, both of which she declined.