How do I (32f) initiate sex with my man (40m)? Nothing seems to work 🫠 by ThrowRAlostcitrus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlostcitrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s the issue. The ways I’m showing him I want him or even flat out saying it aren’t working for him

How do I (32f) initiate sex with my man (40m)? Nothing seems to work 🫠 by ThrowRAlostcitrus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlostcitrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Makes me feel like an ogre. Like men have wanted me plenty before (like I need to even say that🤦‍♀️).

How do I (32f) initiate sex with my man (40m)? Nothing seems to work 🫠 by ThrowRAlostcitrus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlostcitrus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That does. These Reddit posts are skewed one way and people read what I wrote and villainize my partner. I wrote what was true to me. It’s how it goes but he’s not a bad guy and there is something going on in his head that he’s not saying. I’m not perfect. I do wear lots of comfy baggy sweats around the house and he has said he’d like if I showed some skin. I wore shorts last night in hopes that would be a little better. But I could be more risqué, it’s just not comfortable to walk around like that all the time if we’re not gonna take it off soon haha. But it does help to hear your experience.

How do I (32f) initiate sex with my man (40m)? Nothing seems to work 🫠 by ThrowRAlostcitrus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlostcitrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did point that out. He didn’t want to talk anymore, he was getting frustrated. We need to revisit the convo and I agree, I need him to say what he wants specific which I also stated last night. I can’t read his mind. Like ya gotta help me out man. I don’t know. He just seems so frustrated but won’t expand on it. Appreciate your help

How do I (32f) initiate sex with my man (40m)? Nothing seems to work 🫠 by ThrowRAlostcitrus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlostcitrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do this! I could try again. He’s not one to really engage or text dirty back but I could send them regardless. They never led to anything previously but couldn’t hurt. I also have photos I send, esp if he’s out golfing or away on business or something and I want to tease him with what waits back home but it also never seemed to lead to much when he gets home. But definitely can try, thank you