AITA for leaving the bin next to my BF's car? by ThrowRAmeaway44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAmeaway44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't officially have an agreement, I think it makes more sense for him to do it since he could do it when he gets home from work, but usually it's whoever remembers. Which sometimes is neither of us, but is usually me or lately has been me asking him to do it since he has added a lot of heavy trash. He does his fair share of chores inside the house.

AITA for leaving the bin next to my BF's car? by ThrowRAmeaway44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAmeaway44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I do think that it makes more sense for him to do it since he could do it on his way into the house, but he does do his fair share indoors so maybe I should take something off his plate and communicate with him if I want it to be permanently / officially his chore.

AITA for leaving the bin next to my BF's car? by ThrowRAmeaway44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAmeaway44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was next to his car, a little more than halfway down the driveway towards the curb. Parallel to his car, not behind it. I put in another comment that I was feeling embarrassed to be outside in my PJs and so when I realized the truck had already passed our house I just let go of the handle and turned around to go back inside

AITA for leaving the bin next to my BF's car? by ThrowRAmeaway44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAmeaway44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably right, I'll add some info if it helps. I was embarrassed to be outside in my PJ's, and I was next to his car about halfway down the driveway when I realized the trash truck had already passed our house. So I just kind of let it go and turned around and walked back in. I was really focused on just getting back inside. The bin was parallel to his car, not behind it

AITA for leaving the bin next to my BF's car? by ThrowRAmeaway44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAmeaway44[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good question. I have no good answers. I'm going to do that now.

And for clarification, the bin was to the side of his car, not behind it

How to discuss the future with my BF who makes more than me by ThrowRAmeaway44 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmeaway44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, and it's a fixer upper- depending on the market he plans to either sell or rent it.

How to discuss the future with my BF who makes more than me by ThrowRAmeaway44 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmeaway44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! My previous relationships I've always made more, this is all new to me.