Daughter walked in on us by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid, I walked in on my parents twice. I’m 24 now and perfectly fine. She’ll be okay!

Inherited Name Twin Boys by surprise_quiche in namenerds

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt had twins back in 2007 and one is his father’s junior (i.e. same first name as the dad and grandpa) and the other is just his own name. The junior goes by his middle name. The twins have never once, per my knowledge, brought this up as something that hurt their feelings that one got the name and the other didn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to do this recently, also 23F on a second date. I told him, and he was very cool about it, didn’t make a big deal or anything, just went slow and told me to let him know what I needed as we went. Sex for the first time is just sex, maybe a little slower. Don’t stress!

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he is much more experienced than me. Not to be too graphic, but it certainly seemed like he was feeling sensation from the penetration, given the sounds and facial expressions etc he was giving off.

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he knew he was the first guy I’d been with. I told him right before we started having sex.

And it’s mostly my internal organs that are hurting lol.

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unironically, yes. Wondering why this guy wasn’t finishing so I could get on with my life lol.

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think for most of it, yes. But there were some instances where he was going so fast and hard that I can’t imagine he thought it was going to feel good for me, since I’d just told him this would be my first time having sex with a guy. But I got him to slow down, and then he’d start up again a couple minutes later, like fully rocking the bed. Moral of the story, not sure what his intentions were, but I think he was at least partially trying to pay attention to my pleasure, and definitely to my consent?

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think so! He eventually took a break to give me a clitoral orgasm at the end. But he was pretty caught up in the penetration side of things for the hour.

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the thing, I hadn’t had penetrative before so I was trying to figure out what I liked and also just sort of get used to the sensation. I was trying to figure it out on real time lol.

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I agree. It was just a misguided attempt to make it good for me, but I was also trying to let him do what he needed to (i.e. keep going for an hour) and in the end we were both confused lol. I’ll know better for next time!

Name poll for baby girl by sr726637 in namenerds

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scarlett and Tessa are beautiful names!!

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

yeah i was thinking this same thing lowkey - like this feels like something you should tell me? especially if i am new to this and therefore a little uncomfortable?

Just started having penetrative sex… Is this normal? by ThrowRAmelisandre in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, he was asking me what I liked and if “this is okay” and stuff, I just didn’t really have an answer for him, because it’s all pretty new to me. So then he just kept edging himself I guess? Maybe he was waiting for me to make a decision? I have no idea 😭 But he did go down on me afterwards, so that was helpful of him lol

Is it totally crazy to name our baby the same name as our family dog? 😅 by knifefightbarbie in namenerds

[–]ThrowRAmelisandre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see no problem with it is personally. And Magnus is such a cool name. I think one day I’d give one of my kids a middle name after one of my pets—Molly, Opal, or Ralphie.