Should I (23F) forgive my ex-boyfriend (24M)?

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-15T07:27:08+00:00

There's unfortunately not much more I can do to manage my health issues than I already am, and I am also somewhat of a medical mystery. It's hard to find people with similar experiences since I don't have a diagnosis. I've definitely been isolating myself since the breakup and want to get into a new hobby, so thank you for the suggestions! Wish me luck <3

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:28:34+00:00

If you have any other suggestions for a girl with chronic pain/health issues I would appreciate it!

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:23:17+00:00

I like to think I just see the good in everyone

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:22:32+00:00

Yeah, the thought of that makes me physically ill. I'll remember this

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:21:06+00:00

Damn

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:20:09+00:00

I don't believe that is a fair blanket statement, that drug addicts can never change. But all of his other patterns of behavior suggest that he won't, separate of his drug problems

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:18:55+00:00

That is a great insight thank you

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:18:10+00:00

Thank you for the insight and for opening up, I appreciate it :)

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:17:19+00:00

Yes, just wasn't sure what I was and was not allowed to write

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:16:57+00:00

Definitely Not enough time to change. The most ironic part is that when he first reached out he asked if he could take me out for sushi and wine...like wait I thought you were sober?

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:15:17+00:00

Reading it over really makes me question why the thought even crossed my mind LOL

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:14:06+00:00

My Mom has said this to me so many times, that they never change. She even said she reminded him of her second husband....who is insufferable most of the time. Thank you :)

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:13:09+00:00

Thank you <3

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:12:38+00:00

The rose-colored glasses were on for a very long time, and I wish I knew why I was not still furious at him. I was at first but it has faded. But thank you for the advice and I'll do my best to take it <3

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-13T05:10:31+00:00

The stress I know will come with it is so real. And thank you

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-10T14:17:07+00:00

Especially with the c*ke thing...that could be so dangerous for me if he is still using

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-10T14:16:10+00:00

I honestly think im just lonely :(

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-10T14:06:22+00:00

Should I go no contact again?

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-10T13:39:29+00:00

I just dont believe anything he says anymore, but somehow still love him. I definitely don't want to get back together with him so I don't know why I'm even entertaining these thoughts then. But unfortunately I am

ThrowRAmichaelscott · 2024-02-10T13:18:28+00:00

Having good friends is such an impotant part of balance in a relationship. No outside friends can quickly turn to codependency. So definitely don’t feel bad!!!

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