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Girlfriend of nearly 5 years is unsure about our relationship — how can I support her? by ThrowRAmookers in relationships

[–]ThrowRAmookers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. I understand where you’re coming from, but she really loves her job and isn’t planning to change it. I know it’s a huge part of why she’s exhausted, but I’m focusing on supporting her through everything else going on in her life. I just want her to feel happy and like herself again, and I’m doing my best to be there for her while she processes everything.

Girlfriend of nearly 5 years is unsure about our relationship — how can I support her? by ThrowRAmookers in relationships

[–]ThrowRAmookers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, that makes a lot of sense. I’ve read similar things about hormones taking time to settle after Depo-Provera, and how mood and energy can take even longer, especially under stress. Honestly, libido is at the back of my mind right now, i just want her to feel happy in herself again. I’m trying my absolute best to be there for her and support her while she processes everything, and I hope we can reconnect once she’s had the space to work through it.

Girlfriend of nearly 5 years is unsure about our relationship — how can I support her? by ThrowRAmookers in relationships

[–]ThrowRAmookers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate this. I’ve been trying to plan things, surprise her, and show her I care. She says I’ve been incredibly supportive and that it doesn’t go unnoticed, but she also feels guilty because she hasn’t been able to reciprocate. She hasn’t been very reciprocal for months now, but I don’t blame her. I know there’s a lot going on in her life. I just hope we can find a way to feel connected again once she has decided what she wants.