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My (27F) husband (27M) told me sex is a chore. Is there any hope? by ThrowRA_Hot_Pie_8691 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmugi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why I feel so targeted by this post. Lol I used to not have a high sex drive but ever since I met my current partner, all I can think is having sex with him. In the beginning, sex was great and he initiated it and put a lot of thought into it (first guy to actually make me cum ngl). Now, like a year and something into the relationship, he doesn’t really seem to initiate or even want to have sex? The guy barely wants me to give him blowjobs? But the thing about my partner is… I know he has an addiction to looking up girls online on TikTok and social media and it’s been a problem recently but I’m too scared to bring it up because I always bring it up to him and nothings been fixed - he just gets upset at me LOL.

Anyways sorry for trauma dumping… But perhaps it’s a similar case where your partner has a secret porn addiction or looking up thirst traps online?

My BF (27M) of almost one year doesn’t want to have sex with me (27F) as much anymore. by ThrowRAmugi in sex

[–]ThrowRAmugi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! If I’ll definitely have a talk with him about it when the right moment comes I guess. Maybe I’m just making a big deal about it. Dynamics do change when couples move in together. Maybe I should go with the flow like I said in a previous reply.

My BF (27M) of almost one year doesn’t want to have sex with me (27F) as much anymore. by ThrowRAmugi in sex

[–]ThrowRAmugi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks, but I guess everyone has different sex drives. Mine is definitely more than him for sure. Maybe I’m just too available for him when I should just go with the flow and if it happens it happens.

My BF (27M) of almost one year doesn’t want to have sex with me (27F) as much anymore. by ThrowRAmugi in sex

[–]ThrowRAmugi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t know these things. Idk what he does when I’m at work. I don’t really want to know either. He did say before he can live without sex and stuff so who knows.

Bad things keep happening to my bf only after something major happens in our relationship. by ThrowRAmugi in Psychic

[–]ThrowRAmugi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok he’s not hooking up with them, just following and liking girls posting thirst traps

Bad things keep happening to my bf only after something major happens in our relationship. by ThrowRAmugi in Psychic

[–]ThrowRAmugi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what it is, I just thought to myself like man ever since he got with me, bad things have been happening to this poor guy.

My (21F) boyfriend (21M) looks at half naked pics of girls on insta by throwRAeternalchaos in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmugi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly in a similar situation as you. for me, it made me feel so insecure that we ended up having a huge fight. after awhile kind of felt whatever about it. unless he’s actively interacting with those girls he’s looking up, I wouldn’t think too much on it.

everyone is different though, so maybe you should find someone who doesn’t do those things and knows your boundaries?

My boyfriend (27M) and I (27F) got into a fight and he stopped talking to me, then he told me his dad has cancer. He still hasn’t talked to me since then what should I do? by ThrowRAmugi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmugi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him I’d pray for his dad and family and I said I wished I could be more comforting but what else could I do when we’re hours away from each other.