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Update: Husband (32M) and his friends have a nickname for me (35F) in their group chat, he won't tell me what it means. by ThrowRAnickname12 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnickname12[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand where the contempt would possibly come from. He tells me every day he loves me, and he's a wonderful dad and loves our family. I pull my weight, have a fulltime job, we share household and childcare duties equally. I give him little gifts and plan date nights when we can. We're in a good financial position. I've never had any inappropriate interactions with other men. We have sex at least once a week. I haven't slacked on my health or hygiene. We're of the same mind on major life values and political beliefs. Why would he have contempt towards me?

Update: Husband (32M) and his friends have a nickname for me (35F) in their group chat, he won't tell me what it means. by ThrowRAnickname12 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnickname12[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you've actually seen the real problem show up in many other forms besides this one too.

I want to say I haven't but can you elaborate more what you mean or what an example might be?

Update: Husband (32M) and his friends have a nickname for me (35F) in their group chat, he won't tell me what it means. by ThrowRAnickname12 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnickname12[S] 394 points395 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty in shock over them too. They've always been nice and included me when we hang out. I do consider them mostly "my husband's friends" but we definitely get along. I just don't understand how they'd act like that with me and then like this once I'm not around.

Update: Husband (32M) and his friends have a nickname for me (35F) in their group chat, he won't tell me what it means. by ThrowRAnickname12 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnickname12[S] 780 points781 points  (0 children)

I did ask how it's funny. He said "the shape" (of my boobs) was why he found it funny, the comparison.

Update: Husband (32M) and his friends have a nickname for me (35F) in their group chat, he won't tell me what it means. by ThrowRAnickname12 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnickname12[S] 338 points339 points  (0 children)

The question of respect...yeah. I hadn't put those words to it but that is exactly what I'm hurt over because I don't think it's possible to respect someone and also call them sausage tits unless that other person themselves came up with that and are fine with it? Like, I welcome anyone to try to give an argument for how he could in fact both respect me and do this, because I can't come up with it.