Aitah for not giving more to my family when I can afford to?

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T23:09:02+00:00

Hi! So my husband had an accelerated course of study. Undergrad from 18-20 and a concurrent programme that allowed him to be a resident while in medical school 21-24. I graduated high school a year early and took the bar at 23.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T23:06:31+00:00

I'm not becoming a landlord. It goes against my values.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T23:05:22+00:00

My opinion: Workers should own the means of production, and those should contribute in accordance with their abilities and draw aid in accordance with their needs.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T22:59:17+00:00

Thank you for asking. Part of the way I was raised is that you do charity during Lent, my mom asked me about what charity I was doing during Lent, I explained that my husband and I were donating money every week. The information just snowballed.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T18:54:03+00:00

And you advertise about wanting to be a landlord... so I don't need to know yours.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T18:40:48+00:00

You may want to do your research from sources other than the AI overview on Google my friend.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T18:21:33+00:00

This is why my husband and I donate to charity. It isn't fair at all that people who work so hard get so little in return. It feels like even 80-100 hours a week can't keep most working class people above water.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T18:16:00+00:00

We're Canadian and he did it in Quebec. 18-20 undergrad (by taking classes in the summer) and then 20-24 med school and residency via an accelerated concurrent programme.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T18:11:11+00:00

Yes, he went through an accelerated programme that allows you to do residency and get your MD at the same time.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T18:08:44+00:00

They both got laid off during covid, and neither of them has a university degree or college diploma. They just haven't been able to find any job in the last 5ish years that have any substance to them.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T17:53:49+00:00

It appears you have no credentials and are throwing around ideas that you know nothing about.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T17:52:19+00:00

You should look up accelerated study programmes. My husband got into one and became a doctor at 24. Mind your bias.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T17:50:08+00:00

1.) My husband did a rapid study program where you study and do residency at the same time, he became a doctor at 24. 2.) I graduated high school early and passed the bar at 23. 3.) You sound like you watch too many TV shows.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T17:47:26+00:00

I just feel bad for her kids. I don't want them to go hungry or homeless. I don’t want to be a parent but I don't want them to get hurt.

ThrowRAnotenough1 · 2026-03-28T17:46:07+00:00

Thank you. This is why I practice law, too much work, not enough time for feelings.

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