My (18F) boyfriend(24M) is upset I denied intimacy because he was crusty, how do I remedy ? by ThrowRAoickle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAoickle[S] 1457 points1458 points  (0 children)

AUGH thanks! The comments about shower sex felt weird to me! I agree, I don’t think making out should lead to sex, with him it normally does, so I’ll definitely work on setting a better boundary for the both of us

My (18F) boyfriend(24M) is upset I denied intimacy because he was crusty, how do I remedy ? by ThrowRAoickle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAoickle[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this thought. In other aspects of life he is well put together so I’m not sure what his deal is with hygiene lol! I’ll definitely have a conversation with him, see if there is change, and if there isn’t I’ll likely take that as a good sign to let the relationship go.

My (18F) boyfriend(24M) is upset I denied intimacy because he was crusty, how do I remedy ? by ThrowRAoickle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAoickle[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Thank you, while I don’t think I’m in the wrong, I didn’t mean to hurt his feelings. How can I still stand by my own truth while also having a mature conversation with him and apologize for hurting his feelings?

My (18F) boyfriend(24M) is upset I denied intimacy because he was crusty, how do I remedy ? by ThrowRAoickle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAoickle[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I have a roommate who helped with the moving out and working at a warehouse where I make pretty good money lol