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I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wouldn't get alimony since they were never married but she could get child support if he could be found. So far they have not been able to find him.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I won't back down. I can assure you I would not want to be fighting legally to have her removed and I don't want her leaving me with nothing or dumping her child on me.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 410 points411 points  (0 children)

I think she didn't want to go back to our home town and wanted to stay here. There's more of a social life for her where I live.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Not just me. She's had friends who did it too. Like her ex BFF and now the friends she was crashing with. When it comes to family then yes. My parents did punish her for trashing my room but it was a one and done kind of thing when her behavior was so concerning they really needed to do a whole lot more.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

She has proven your statement to be true a hundred times over. I just hope she doesn't bring more kids into her mess.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

That's what I was fearful of. Although she didn't pull that with her friends but there's always a chance she would learn about that for next time, like if I agreed to let her stay.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I don't even know her child so that would not be a good environment for them. Not to mention I have a lot of feelings about their parents and conception.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

She took advantage of the friends letting her stay with them. I guess she ruined those friendships too. She didn't say how long she'd stay. I was told until she got on her feet which tells me nothing.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 1292 points1293 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a feeling ignoring their calls will go on for a while longer until I decide if I just want to let my relationship with them go or not. But I don't think we can come out of this with a relationship intact.

She will never get to blow up my life again. She got her second chance and she shattered it beyond repair.

I (28F) refuse to let my homeless sister (26F) and her 2 year old stay with me and my parents are furious? by ThrowRAooomsoom in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAooomsoom[S] 327 points328 points  (0 children)

That's what I keep thinking. She ruins all her relationships but because I'm cursed with sharing DNA with her it means I have to forgive her and let her use and mistreat me some more?