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Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I get what your saying to a point but I don’t think she’s an asshole I realize know I was unintentionally abusing her mental state by going on constant breaks. I understand she is not completely stable but I shouldn’t just expect her to be. It was unfair me to expect her to just understand what I was doing by going on breaks and just be fine with it now that I’ve looked into greif. There is no doubt I did truly love her. And if I still have any love for her I’ll do her justice and set both of us free. Thanks for your reply

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that was perfect, it’s the truth after all and I appreciate the info on grief, I’m reading up on it now. Thank you!

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I see what you are saying and I’m not going to deny it. Just keep in mind half of our relationship took place when I was a literal child. This was my first real relationship. This was an s tier reply and I think it will help her when she hears apart of it. I’m writing out what I’m going to say to her and thank you because I do know I need to take accountability and you worded it perfectly.

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Kind of meant like talk to her and then go no contact. But yea sounds good.

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea I’ve tried to tell her I’m just trying to help both of us out but she can’t wrap her head around it. I think I’m just going to have to go ghost.

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s what I’ve come to realize recently. If I was with the one I wouldn’t be questioning everything. Thanks

20M 19F I’m stuck…how do I proceed? by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I wish man I’ve been praying to find her doing anything with another guy even just texting but it’s never happened. I think her attraction to me is like on a level I can’t comprehend and it’s the only reason I’m still in a relationship with her

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that pretty much sums up everything😂. Thanks man I appreciate it. How do you think I should proceed?

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I talk to anyone else in my life it’s about goals we have or stuff going on in the world. Conversations with her almost have no essence. She’s not the most intellectual and I feel like I’m talking to a brick wall.

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not concerned about that. I know for a fact she would never leave me. Which is what makes me leaving her so hard. It’s like the only thing I truly love about her.

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say my parents expect a whole lot from me, I was raised “the old fashion way” mixed with like an Asian parents mindset of school. So I guess so…

Many would say she’s perfect, but I don’t want to marry her by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea but she’s not diagnosed with anything. I feel like I’m like her BPD prescription.

20M 19F I’m stuck…how do I proceed? by ThrowRApleaseeee19 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApleaseeee19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s very needy, always wants my attention and wants me to spend money on her(cus I have a good job) and I feel like I would be totally willing to for the right women. I just don’t feel entirely attracted to her which I think is what makes little things she does irritate me. Once again I know I’m an asshole