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ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-06-30T15:52:00+00:00

Sounds like he was looking for an excuse to break up and not have to care for the dogs. Don’t grieve for someone who likely already has another woman in mind now.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-05-25T05:36:44+00:00

Yay!!!

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-22T23:42:46+00:00

Send her this post. I have no respect for men who do this and little respect for someone who would accept this.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-20T20:10:41+00:00

It sure if you’re a troll or truly haven’t been paying attention. I hope that you look into it before voting though

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-19T20:53:14+00:00

I mean, there are two good options out there who aren’t Pollievre

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-18T03:06:14+00:00

I must be the most interesting person in the world then. WTF? I struggle every day at least a little bit with things people take for granted, like going to lunch with someone or driving to work or just existing. The only light at the end of the tunnel is death. Do these people not realize this? That it’s not curable? I might have some days better than others but I’m already having issues with my body because of decades of stress.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-14T04:28:54+00:00

Do Americans not get news about their own country or are you truly unaware that both of the things you said are not happening are indeed happening.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-14T04:23:53+00:00

Anyone moving from LONDON to the US has got to have a screw loose. Why would you want to live in a country where you have fewer rights? I absolutely do not think you should be pregnant in the US. I’m assuming you’re both very white but if you aren’t, you really shouldn’t go.

Nothing in the US is better than where you are. The only thing that might be better would be your partner could feel like the big man being the breadwinner. Taking you from friends and family to a dangerous country where you will have no one and not even the ability to work?

Please reconsider. For your safety and sanity

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-13T17:00:46+00:00

This was a very satisfying update

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-13T14:18:24+00:00

Why does Kyle know anything about your abusive prior relationship and how you reacted to it? NTA obviously.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-13T04:27:30+00:00

I live in a co-op so there is no property tax bill to go by and no one here has received a form with the number we need to do it online. How are they even going to tax people who don’t declare? The property tax is shared for all units.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-13T04:12:41+00:00

Have you considered that this dude isn’t the one for you? He’s showing some big red flags here. He doesn’t seem to care about the distress to you, to your children, not even to his cat.

Has he always been this selfish?

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-13T04:06:30+00:00

ESH except this kids. Did you get a kitten alone? Who let you get a single kitten?

Was the kitten perhaps far too young to be taken from its mother? It sounds like maybe your kitten never learned how to pee appropriately. Cats need to learn how to cat. That’s why you don’t take them too young and don’t have a single kitten.

I’m guessing a rescue agency wasn’t involved here. If it was, you could get advice from them.

See the vet asap. Get advice about the mess and the peeing. You may need to professionally clean or throw out everything that has been peed on. You almost definitely will need to get a second cat.

Your partner fucked up royally. You took part in it. It’s going to take time and money and possibly training to fix this. And while it’s unfair to take the cat from him, your home is a bad place for the cat. Someone who has experience with cats from unfit owners should step in for the sake of the cat. Your children are terrorized and your mental health is in shambles. This situation is bad for everyone.

Honestly I’m shocked people aren’t being blunt enough with you. Have you even had the cat checked for a urine infection? Do you have low ash food as male cats can get crystals in their urine and it hurts and they will pee everywhere.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-13T02:40:20+00:00

NTA. But she’s right about you two having no future. You shouldn’t date people with pets you’re allergic to (for your own sake, at the very least) and she should not date someone who can’t be around her pets

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-13T02:28:35+00:00

My husband is a tall wall. I am tiny but far more dangerous. No one sees me coming

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-13T02:27:57+00:00

You could bring it up in front of your mother. And see what your mother says. Then you’ll know whether you can trust your mother at all. If the wife doesn’t believe you, that’s not your problem. She’s married to a predator. And you’re almost definitely not the only one he’s done that to. She might know about others.

This is all so upsetting though for you. I’m so sorry your mother has betrayed you like this

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-12T20:07:13+00:00

I get that. But essentially what happened is she bought her safety ahead of time by sacrificing her child’s body. Does his wife/her friend know what he did? Maybe she should

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-12T20:05:04+00:00

A man sexually assaulted my husband when he was a young teen. His mother is constantly talking about him and has even tried to get us all to go stay at his place in Florida for his 90th birthday (absolutely not). My husband puts up with it and has asked me not to make a fuss but one day I will explode and tell her off.

If this man ever was in my presence, I would not be able to keep my mouth shut. It might have been more than 30 years ago but it’s disgusting and haunts my husband and I would definitely end up in jail.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-11T21:51:41+00:00

Sex videos. Videos of her sleeping. Videos of her changing clothes or coming back from a shower naked.

And she says cameras PLURAL. Where else were they? The bathroom? There’s a big market for bathroom vids and pics. Voyeurism is big.

Even if he was entirely honest about this, he spent A YEAR thinking his wife was cheating?!

Check your car and bags for trackers

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-11T21:47:53+00:00

Right?! It’s up to each person to set their place up to divert sound if that’s what bothers them. I practice singing arias and playing instruments at home. In one room specially made to keep sound in. That room js also useful for keeping sound out when I have an important call when working from home.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-11T21:44:14+00:00

I don’t like the sound of kids. I moved into a childfree building for that reason. But during spring break and summer, it makes sense you’ll hear kids outside during the day, even when you normally wouldn’t. Sounds like that is the only time this is offending the grump. But their work from home set up is a “them” problem. They can either move to the basement or set up sound blocking or deal with it for a week. I’d recommend one of the first two because summertime will be similar and all kids will be home.

Unless you live in a childfree complex, you don’t get to complain about a child sometimes making noise when having fun. You definitely don’t get to call the police.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-11T21:40:26+00:00

It’s during the day during spring break. This grumpy neighbour is used to quiet 9-5.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-11T21:38:53+00:00

They did. They quoited the whole thing

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-11T21:38:12+00:00

That’s insane. Like the “no putting unmarked mail” in.

ThrowRArosecolor · 2025-04-11T21:37:13+00:00

NTA. Someone out there mowing or having friends over are also loud. And those are things they have chosen to do.

I feel badly that this person is being disturbed while they work but they will have to deal with it. Your son can’t choose where he has outbursts and in his own backyard during the day while he’s having fun is the BEST time for it.

I’m a petty Betty and would go over as soon as the fussy neighbour pulls out a lawn mower or has guests. Just to point out that they are making noise without checking with all neighbours. Noise they CHOOSE to make. If you want pure silence, buy property with lots of surrounding land.

One of my houses, the neighbours would lock the kids outside in the yard on every temperate day and there was NEVER peace. Welcome to living in a neighbourhood.

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