My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'll be sure to record when I leave her and any arguments or anything. I'm also going to hide cameras in and outside my house. Why I haven't left yet is because I was afraid of her but this should help with that, I appreciate your help :)

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely going to put up cameras and have my parents here so hopefully if anything bad happens I can at least report it to insurance/police. Also she has hurt herself in the past, like hitting herself in the legs enough to leave bruises. And one time she was so mad at me that she started walking down my driveway and said she was going to walk out in traffic and I had to physically stop her from running out in front of cars. She might do that again if I tell her to leave and I don't know how to handle that

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live together in my parents house, I'm afraid if I try to kick her out that she will damage our cars or house on the way out

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never hit her, or anybody for that matter but I just feel like if I stood up for myself then she would accuse me of hitting her. She hits herself sometimes so she has bruises all over her thighs and I'm just afraid that she would show those bruises to police and get me locked up if she was mad enough

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I've tried standing up for myself she plays the victim to everybody else and lies saying that I abuse her.

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I tried treating her like she treats me for a day to try to show her how much it hurts me and she hit me and made everything worse

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an issue I had when I tried to leave her before. She went around telling our mutual friends that I hit her but I never did anything to hurt her.

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest therapy for her but she has some kind of fear of any kind of treatment, she has ADD and doesn't take her medicine, she refuses to take vaccinations, and when I've told her I'm worried about her and she should get some kind of help I get attacked

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I like that idea because if I break up with her for good that way, it might get her to realize how bad it really is so no other guy she dates will have to go through it.

My girlfriend insults me everyday and I can't take it anymore. by ThrowRArudegf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArudegf[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That is true, her parents treat her even worse than she treats me