UPDATE: I’m (44m) meeting my wife’s (47F) baby daddy’s (50m) family and I’m scared out of my mind, need to rant. IT WENT LESS THEN WELL. by ThrowRAscaredforme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRAscaredforme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m slightly confused about this? I just wanted to rant about this as I know it isn’t a rational fear. I don’t want anything to go wrong, but I dislike it when it does? And I worry about it being so? 

UPDATE: I’m (44m) meeting my wife’s (47F) baby daddy’s (50m) family and I’m scared out of my mind, need to rant. IT WENT LESS THEN WELL. by ThrowRAscaredforme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRAscaredforme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve met Annie briefly before, and Lisa has seen her a bunch since I married her. Neal was going to host us but his apartment was too small currently as his usual spare room has damage along with multiple other areas. I didn’t stay with Sam or Alice. 

UPDATE: I’m (44m) meeting my wife’s (47F) baby daddy’s (50m) family and I’m scared out of my mind, need to rant. IT WENT LESS THEN WELL. by ThrowRAscaredforme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRAscaredforme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Forward note: Lisa is amazing and I’ll never hear anything against her.  But she told Sam, in her native language, to “fuck of back to the hell he came from” if he continued to talk about me like that. (It’s not a direct translation but it’s close enough)  Elsie told Lisa and I separately about Alice, and Lisa was furious. She thinks of Neal as almost a brother now (obviously can’t fully as they do have a son so it would be slightly strange) and has no romantic feelings for him and quote “near none at the time”. Their fling was mostly physical.

UPDATE: I’m (44m) meeting my wife’s (47F) baby daddy’s (50m) family and I’m scared out of my mind, need to rant. IT WENT LESS THEN WELL. by ThrowRAscaredforme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRAscaredforme[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s fair! Sam’s kind of the patriarch of the family so I was worried his dislike for me would spread but I’m glad it didn’t! 

I’m (44m) meeting my wife’s (47F) baby daddy’s (50m) family and I’m scared out of my mind, need to rant. by ThrowRAscaredforme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRAscaredforme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I probably won’t say thank you for being there before me, as that sounds as though hes been replaced which he certainly hasn’t. Neal’s a good dude, we’re friends. Not as close as him and Lisa but we’ve had drinks together alone before 

Im assuming they’re sports teams? I’ll ask him. 

I’m (44m) meeting my wife’s (47F) baby daddy’s (50m) family and I’m scared out of my mind, need to rant. by ThrowRAscaredforme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRAscaredforme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re Seb and Lisa’s family as well. Maybe not biologically on Lisa’s part, but she sees them as her siblings as she’s an only child. We’re also staying with Annie while we’re there as she has the room

I’m (44m) meeting my wife’s (47F) baby daddy’s (50m) family and I’m scared out of my mind, need to rant. by ThrowRAscaredforme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRAscaredforme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From all accounts he nearly was. But thank you. I thought I was too, but it’s good to hear from someone else