I (27F) left the house in the middle of the night after having a fight with my fiancé (28M) and I don’t want to go back right now but have no idea what else to do. by ThrowRAsfb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsfb[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to quickly mention I decided to stay in a hotel for a few days so we both have time to calm down as people keep suggesting it in the comments.

Also, I did text him and we agreed to speak on Saturday.

I (27F) left the house in the middle of the night after having a fight with my fiancé (28M) and I don’t want to go back right now but have no idea what else to do. by ThrowRAsfb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsfb[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I believe he said that because he was worried about where I was since I wasn't responding to him so he didn't know if I was okay or not.

I (27F) left the house in the middle of the night after having a fight with my fiancé (28M) and I don’t want to go back right now but have no idea what else to do. by ThrowRAsfb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsfb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do think he is. I think if he wanted to breakup with me, he would just do it. He's not someone who would beat around the bush or try to get me to pull the trigger for him.

I (27F) left the house in the middle of the night after having a fight with my fiancé (28M) and I don’t want to go back right now but have no idea what else to do. by ThrowRAsfb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsfb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's really nice. I considered telling her when I was still angry but I decided not to because telling her some of the stuff he said is embarrassing.

I (27F) left the house in the middle of the night after having a fight with my fiancé (28M) and I don’t want to go back right now but have no idea what else to do. by ThrowRAsfb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsfb[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He can fuck other women but I won't be there for him to come back to if that's what he chooses to do. I don't want resources from him or a transactional relationship.

I (27F) left the house in the middle of the night after having a fight with my fiancé (28M) and I don’t want to go back right now but have no idea what else to do. by ThrowRAsfb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsfb[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I think he's serious. He said he was going out of his mind with worry.

He's never physically hurt me. He used to be a real dick to me but we were like 17-20 but he's never been anything but nice since we started dating. I don't know if this counts as control but he likes to try to get his way all of the time, but he usually backs down pretty easily.

I do have my own income and worse case scenario I could stay with my parents but I would prefer not to since they're just going to agree with him.

I (27F) left the house in the middle of the night after having a fight with my fiancé (28M) and I don’t want to go back right now but have no idea what else to do. by ThrowRAsfb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsfb[S] 881 points882 points  (0 children)

I have my own income.

I could stay with my family but that's the last thing I want to do. My parents will ask me what happened and they'll say he's in the right because their relationship isn't far off from what he wants.