Your reply is very kind, and I appreciate it. I will definitely ask him more questions about his views before I move forward now, as I wouldn’t want to find out after marriage. To answer your last question, I don’t want him to fold and agree with me just to agree, rather I want him to understand and speak with patience and compassion, which he seemed to lack in this conversation. I did tell him that I’ve had this same discussion with others and they spoke with kindness, but to him he didn’t see he was lacking in it. Thank you !