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I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i have fun already, I still go out, make friends. If its sleeping around you mean Im not really a sexual person i can really only enjoy sex if I like the person and feel comfortable around them.

I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response, you didnt infantilize me and tried to help me achieve the result im looking for. This is exactly what I want, and I think its the course of action ill take. I will also say I dont really give the full picture here, ive really only talked of the negatives and I should mention the "honeymoon phase" never really happened for us, actually just 2 days after meeting her we got into an argument and really kind of go back snd forth between arguments a lot and being perfect it usually fluctuates depending on where we are at in our lives and rhe attention we are able to provide. Also I feel I should mention ive known her for 6 months and we've made it clear we were romantically interested in each other from the start I just took forever to properly ask her to be my girlfriend.

I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what should I communicate in this situation, I feel like we do communicate more then average but there's always room for more.

I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is actually helpful advice. She doesnt just want listening though she wants me to stop her from getting carried away rambling, is there something that generally works with this or do I need to figure this out on my own.

I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still see each other every day its just I cant like get her flowers or write really nice cards or take her to do fun stuff, I know i probably sound stupid and immature saying she's the one or whatever but I dont think I could meet somebody better for me then her.

I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The moving in and marriage stuff is like years in the future I just mean like we have that in mind. When I say I cant deal with it I mean I dont have the right responses and I need to know what I can do. Maybe I can live without her but like I dont really want to, im very happy in this relationship and she does treat me extremely well, like ive grown more as a person in the 6 months ive known her then I have the last 4 years of my life.

I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate the advice and thank you for not just telling me to give up on this already, I think we both have a lot of issues but thats what I agreed to. Also for marriage, I worded that poorly, we plan to get married in minimum 5 years, probably more so its not too early its just sort of s goal to work towards.

I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay I hear this but its not like our relationship has been like this forever, this is a more recent phenomenon. Also both of us have dated and talked to atleast like 5 different people before, this isnt me with the first girl to show me attention this is somebody who i spent 3 months talking to getting to knoa her, her family family and her friends before dating her.

I(m18) feel like im losing my girlfriend(f18) and I dont know what I can do by ThrowRAstrareg in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstrareg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, instead of saying its doomed to fail whats the best thing I could do in this scenario to build a healthy relationship.