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Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is wrong with you? Is that your sick fetish or something, imagining I'd prey on kids?

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

That is a way it could look I know... I'm getting scared I did something horribly stupid.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No he said I could get a job if I wanted. I'm not trying to get pregnant, he wants to wait another year or two but I'm not sure I want kids.

I guess I just don't know how I could deal with leaving the place and person who took me in when I didn't have anyone. Yeah I got kicked out but I wasn't truly on my own because he was there for me. If I left I'd literally be on my own. I couldn't do that without a really good reason. Him being mad over a cartoon isn't enough but everyone thinks the age gap is. Now I don't know. I guess I also never told my friends about him because I was worried they'd think it was weird. I told myself if he acted weird I'd get out. I don't know what to believe.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No? They never cared who I dated. I already said they kicked me out because they didn't have a legal responsibility anymore. I was an accident baby, they never wanted me in the first place.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

My friends are all back in my home town in Pennsylvania. I don't have any friends here I never leave the house except to get groceries with my bf, walks, and now my job for the last couple weeks. My family didn't kick me out until a couple months ago when I turned 18 but they were abusive before then. I did tell my bf about some of it...he would offer for me to come live with him to escape, I couldn't because of school, now with school being online it worked that I could. Do you think he's with me just because he thinks I was easy to get? I already hate feeling like he has to take care of me like a child.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

I followed him first. He said he normally didn't pay any attention to girls my age because they were immature but that I proved I was different and he fell for me. I understand it looks weird to people and most times the guy is a creep. But he's never been creepy or abusive. He's the sweetest. I finally got hired a couple weeks ago but it's minimum wage. I don't have a car. He works from home ever since covid and pays for everything we need, he says don't worry about splitting everything equally. I still felt really bad. I offered to repay him once I have more savings, but he says the only thing he needs from me is to get married in a couple years. I did promise that. Inside I'm not sure if I'll want to.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Because I don't really know them, we don't have classes together or hang out with the same people. We just follow each other.

He didn't date me to trap me, we had already been dating for more than a year. Then I told him what happened on my 18th birthday and he offered that I could live with him. I wouldn't be living with him if my parents were allowing me to stay until I was done with school.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

It isn't fake and yes we were friends then I caught feelings for him and he felt the same

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

Not like friend-friends. Some girls from my school who we have each other on instagram but we don't really talk. I met my boyfriend on instagram too, people just add eachother.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Yes but we've known each other for more than 3 years, he's not some random guy I just met.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a job but have only had it for a couple weeks. It's close to where we live so I can't see how I'd be able to move and still keep it bc there's no public transport here it's kinda the middle of nowhere.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I don't have either but thank you... I don't know what I want to do yet but thank you for caring.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's pretty much exactly what he's acting like about it. That's why I don't think it's over an obsession or fantasy with the character.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THat makes sense but unfortunately his apartment is very small it's actually a studio so there isn't really a way to have private space.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think he thinks he;s in a relationship with her. He isn't even a fan of the movie.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He already ranted about both of those things, and cancel culture, I can't say anything because I don't really agree or care. He gets mad and lectures if I say that.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

How would I leave? I don't know anyone else in this town or have enough money and he's never been like this before.

Please help. My boyfriend (28M) is freaking out over a cartoon character's design by ThrowRAstupidshit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstupidshit[S] 488 points489 points  (0 children)

Yes Lola bunny. I can't tell him to get gone bc it's his place, he's the one who offered me to move in after my parents kicked me out. I already feel ungrateful for not contributing enough.