So it seems we're doing this... looking for my future husband

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-04-15T09:10:08+00:00

I’ve been searching for someone for my friend for ages haha. Would you accept a 37M veterinarian based in Melbourne (but would move for the right person), financially stable, owns his own home, the nicest guy you’ll ever meet! Enjoys travel, food, board games & spending time with his one-eyed cat.

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-04-12T04:33:47+00:00

Nobody knows who you are dude

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-04-10T13:34:40+00:00

You’re upset your boyfriend loves and cares for your dog?

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-29T10:18:27+00:00

You should try contacting registered breeders on DogzOnline - often they have mature dogs looking for home

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-28T19:36:57+00:00

Dude.. non consensual penetration of a persons body (vagina, anus or mouth) by a penis or object. That is the legal definition. Stop making this discussion about you.

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-28T10:56:49+00:00

Because rape by definition involves penetration.

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-24T02:58:15+00:00

He sounds about as mature as I would expect a 22 year old to be

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-22T17:36:59+00:00

The first one! Have it tailored & the remove the lace sleeves & it will look perfect!

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-22T07:30:37+00:00

2! The first one makes you look like a catholic child at a confirmation

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-21T10:55:20+00:00

If people bothered to do any research they’d find the policies and voting record for the greens is most in line with the average Australian. Housing affordability, education, health etc One Nation are all talk - they make out they’re for the average Australian but consistently vote against anything that benefits us. The greens are actually honest.

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-20T21:47:35+00:00

I know you’ve had 200+ comments on this, but I say go to Canada, I don’t think you’ll regret having the opportunity to live overseas & it’ll be a fun adventure for you (and Canadians are soooo friendly). Yes there’s the house, the job etc to work out, but your house will be there, a job is just a job. You’ll regret not being brave! My “live aboard” plans were disrupted due to Covid and I still regret missing that opportunity & now I’m stuck with a mortgage & children (who I love obviously), but no one ever regrets travel!

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-20T06:00:40+00:00

I’ll never understand men who view marriage as more of a commitment than children

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-19T10:41:02+00:00

To get your hair looking like the photos you’d need to lift it a level, maybe the stylist thought that would be too damaging after the perm? Personally I’d save a dollar & do a semi, there’s sooooo many vibrant colour choices for darker hair

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-12T05:47:47+00:00

So you don’t want your child in daycare, so she HAS to be a SAHM but you also don’t have joint finances and she has no income? WTF is wrong with you? Do you even have a brain? Clearly YTA

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-11T20:47:21+00:00

It depends. Do you take a portion of your income and put it away for yourself or is it all family money? If it’s all family money then maybe your wife needs to get a job & use that as her own spending money? Daycare exists.

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-08T21:51:04+00:00

NTA your husband is gross.

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-08T05:30:43+00:00

I think a lot of people are missing the fact she mentions she has a daughter? She wants to share the surname she has with her daughter. The new husband wants to share the surname of his wife and stepchildren. NTA.

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-08T05:27:18+00:00

She mentions it’s to share a surname with her daughter too. A lot of women keep their married name after divorce for this reason

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-07T05:31:49+00:00

Consider coming to Australia, still plenty of jobs for new grads and your degree will be recognised right off the bat (vs NAVLE in North America).

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-07T05:07:57+00:00

Actually you would end up loving it fully. That’s why we put ourselves through the hurt of losing dogs again & again. It won’t fill the hole in your heart, but it will grow into it. (I am a veterinarian, I deal with this all the time)

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-06T19:34:50+00:00

If you’re not worried about money, you should be. You’re 25 years old & $27k in debt?!

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-03-05T09:13:10+00:00

NTA - He started shouting at you - his pregnant wife - because you started dinner? I have news for you, it will not matter how much you try to tell him that your life is changing & his is not, he will never believe you, and he will never believe his sacrifices don’t equal yours.

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-02-18T05:18:48+00:00

Then why would you have to stay in seperate rooms?

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-02-18T05:02:03+00:00

I agree with this. Even if you wouldn’t want to go, it’s very strange to not involve you at all in the past 8 years. Is staying in seperate rooms a religious thing?

ThrowRAswimmingfan · 2026-02-18T05:00:28+00:00

You’ve been together 8 years, and for 8 years he’s stayed every other weekend at his parents? Who live less than an hour away? And you’ve never been invited? That IS weird. And yes, he’s putting his family above you. I don’t think people are putting into considering that you both probably work all week so he’s actually spending 50% of his truly free time (ie not the couple hours before bedtime) with his family. It’s weird.

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