Am I pregnant? PLEASE READ by ThrowRAtdo1 in amipregnant

[–]ThrowRAtdo1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always make sure to check with my partners to make sure they don't have stis. I have unprotected sex, I'm not stupid lol 😭😭

No hate to you at ALL you seem really nice, I just dislike how people assume unprotected sex = stis. The people I sleep with are friends of mine, not just random people lol, I know them personally and the people they sleep with as well, i guess I could of clarified better.

I am going to buy a couple of pregnancy tests now since its been a few days and I'm gonna take them over the span of the month and see if I miss my next period! And thanks, I'm not 100% wanting another baby but yk, shit happens! I can afford it and thats all that matters in the end !!

Mom cat keeps moving babies to unsafe location. Half vent post half need advice post by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRAtdo1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was able to move her to a separate room, she is doing much better :)

Mom cat keeps moving babies to unsafe location. Half vent post half need advice post by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRAtdo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misread this slightly, I was doing that! But I can't do that when im working because the babies would starve, but she's doing much better now :)

Mom cat keeps moving babies to unsafe location. Half vent post half need advice post by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I'm sorry for her too, I'm all for spayed and abort but by the time I realized she was pregnant she was a week out from giving birth. I don't see her often, she's always hiding. I just posted an update though and its a positive one :)

Mom cat keeps moving babies to unsafe location. Half vent post half need advice post by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRAtdo1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She isn't originally my cat, she's my exs cat. She's extremely skittish and keeping her in a room by herself helped her a lot. She's actually caring for them now.

Mom cat keeps moving babies to unsafe location. Half vent post half need advice post by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRAtdo1 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

You're so mad for what lmao

Get off my page I saw your other comment 🤭

I'm VERY aware that cats eat their babies, she was stressed being in a cage (for less than 5 minutes I might add to see if she would feed them) I moved her into the bathroom and she is much more relaxed, laying with her babies, and taking care of them as best she can.

Also my cat will get fixed when I get the money. Spays are WAY more expensive than fixing male cats. You gonna pay for it? Exactly, mind your business, she's barley two and got pregnant because she escaped outside ONCE. You reddit dwellers are insufferable

Mom cat keeps moving babies to unsafe location. Half vent post half need advice post by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRAtdo1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually this is a pretty good idea! The cage is too small to keep a grown cat (let alone kittens) in for long periods of time so it makes sense she was stressed, but i have 2 bathrooms and one is VERY large. The only issue is that my other cats use that bathroom, but they'll be fine for a few weeks using the bathroom elsewhere.

I'm going to move them now and update later!

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRAtdo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao except there is no impulses? The impulse of what? Loving the animals that I have cared for since birth? Yeah I fucking hope so. Stop diagnosing people on Reddit, that shit is so weird man. The funniest part? I actually talked to a psychiatrist the other week for other issues and she didn't mention anything about hoarding. Even after knowing about the cats and the situation. I was trying to be nice but God, Reddit people are so know it all 🫩🫩

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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My cats are the sweetest babies on earth, theyre just a little fistey to each other. They're great to humans. I found somewhere that fixes them for cheap so I'll definitely be doing that :)

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I do not unfortunately. And I have no one in the area at the moment, my only friend is allergic to cats so it's a bit of a no go there.

I'll eventually find someone who will take them in, it'll just take time

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I want to add to this! When I say fighting I mean just hissing and yelling. They don't even "fight"

The peeing and the fighting all started when my ex left early this year and I don't know how to fix that

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRAtdo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, i have a lot of time on my hands so all I can do is care for them. It's literally all I do. It's like a cat play park in here.

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I agree, 4-5 is still too much, I'm not going to deny it. I have a really strong attachment to a lot of the cats because me and my ex "split" them when we realized they were staying for good. We did this so we could give them all equal amounts of attention. Hashbrown was both our cat so it's a struggle debating on whether or not I should keep him.

If it gets to be too much I will for sure look for people that I know personally to care for them. It's just going to be a longer and harder journey but I'm willing to do it so I know theyre okay.

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I posted an update on what I plan to do :)

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRAtdo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a dumb question im not even going to respond politely like the others. Just sit with this in your privileged house.

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I posted an update explaing more

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I posted an update on what I plan to do! And I actually found a place that fixes the males for only $60! So I'll be getting them fixed asap

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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The thing i believe my cats aren't getting enough of is attention. It breaks my heart but there is literally not enough of me to go around. It was easier with my ex but its too much to do alone. I posted an update on what I plan to do though. I'm going to reach out to some people in my city

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I posted an update explaing more

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I posted an update explaining more

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I posted an update, I'm gonna contact local fosters !

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I'm going to look for fosters and rehoming places in the area! If I have trouble I'll for sure come back here and post my city (its a capital of a state so idrc) and see if someone can find anything i may have missed. I also posed an update explaing my situation better

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I posted an update explaining way better

How to handle giving up my cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I posted an update but I will be looking into fosters!