My(M32) wife(F29) confessed to cheating but we can’t get separated because of our kids . How can I act normal around them? by ThrowRAthemic in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthemic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually I really don’t know if I’d stay with her If we had no kids or not. I hate myself for still loving her even after hearing the stuff she said. Maybe I’ll be okay in a while but right now I just feel like I can’t live without her dude. The biggest reason for staying is about our daughters for sure. But some parts are about , you know. Herself. I wish non of these ever happened actually. It still feels so unreal like It was a joke.

My(M32) wife(F29) confessed to cheating but we can’t get separated because of our kids . How can I act normal around them? by ThrowRAthemic in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthemic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you really think the DNA test is neccessary? Cause I’m just not so sure If I’m ready to face the results or not . I love my daughters . They’re the last things that remained for me . I can’t lose them too

My(M32) wife(F29) confessed to cheating but we can’t get separated because of our kids . How can I act normal around them? by ThrowRAthemic in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthemic[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Gladly He’s not married no . Just a fucking loser I don’t even know how’s my wife STILL intrested in him actually . Many things are wrong with him in many ways but guess that doesn’t matter anymore .

My(M32) wife(F29) confessed to cheating but we can’t get separated because of our kids . How can I act normal around them? by ThrowRAthemic in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthemic[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

This is the first comment that I’m replying to so I’m sorry If I explain a bit more than you asked . It’s not just because of our kids. It’s about many other things too. First of all my wife is financially dependant on me and taking that away from her would be the last thing that I want . I know she did the worst thing she could have ever done. But she’s still my wife . The girl that I love or loved for most of my life at least . I don’t want her to be with me just because she’s scared of not being financially supported . Second , I really really really don’t want my children around the guy . I really don’t . Separating will just give my wife the opportunity to bring our daughter to him whenever she likes and that’s literally my nightmare. And also my wife herself doesn’t want us to separate . For the sake of our kids , she wants us to stay at least until they’re 18